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As a single footstep will not make a path on the earth, so a single thought will not make a pathway in the mind. To make a deep physical path, we walk again and again. To make a deep mental path, we must think over and over the kind of thoughts we wish to dominate our lives.
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Henry David Thoreau
{Things of focus lately}
1. friendships
the people in my life that inspire, humor, love, and motivate me are crucial to my being. i do my very best in expressing to them daily that they hold that importance to me. but lately i have found it to be quite disheartening how others don’t reciprocate. i had such an incredible group of girls in tennessee that i really fear may never be matched. one that i could always count on taking me out for an adventure, and strong drink. she was capable of always making me laugh. another one that would give me the more motherly approach but always met my needs with creative inspiration and advice. another that was the same sort of emotional person i was, she looked on the deeper side of things, and not only did we have the same taste in a lot of things, but we were able to save one another by lessons we had both already learned. i try not to focus on it. missing them. really wanting that face to face coffee conversation. but i noticed when i am around my friends here, it just isn’t quite the same. they aren’t seeing that part of me that i must have left in tennessee.

2. who i am today
i changed at some point into a much stronger and wiser version of my previous self. i found stillness and a way to cultivate quietness in my mind. i feel that i can always find something good out of even the worse situations. but i still need to work on a lot of things, really truly forgiving people, and moving forward with that. trying not to understand others actions but just love them regardless.  not letting the small things that people say bother me. that is something that must be a vice of mine. i don’t hold on to it for very long, but i am a bit sensitive.

what i want to say with all of this, is that it really does a great heap of good to reflect on these things. to write them down. talk about them. and try to work on them. there seems to be no point in mindless actions and words. if you feel things {like i do, in a very strong way} then let that be a positive aura that you create and can share with others.


Pictures from the Orange County Buffet in Dongnae. I often feel...





Pictures from the Orange County Buffet in Dongnae. I often feel cheated eating at buffets in Korea, because they lack two essential items: (1) unlimited free soda and (2) ice cream for dessert. Who cares if you can cook unlimited amounts of beef at your table if you can’t refill your soda five times at the fountain? Also, who wants to eat toast for dessert?

Sheesh, Korea, you do me wrong.

But, yet, I can’t quit you.

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Hi, I'm Stacy. I'm from Portland, Oregon, USA, and am currently living in Busan, South Korea. Check me out on: Tumblr, Twitter, Instagram, Lastfm, and Flickr.

 

How to Nail the Phone Interview

After a recruiter or school receives your resume, they will want to schedule a phone interview. (If there is no phone interview, it’s probably not worth pursuing). Besides your resume, the phone interview is what will determine if you get a job. The majority of phone interviews are not a typical job interview, so it’s good to know what to expect.

It Will be Late

Of course, the phone interview will probably be scheduled late at night, from 11 pm – 3 am. The important thing to do is be as available as much as possible. Otherwise the job may fill up while they are trying to schedule a convenient time for your interview.  Make sure you have access to a relatively quiet place, and where you get good reception. Also, check to make sure you have the correct time conversion as well.

It Will be Short

Unlike most job phone interviews, this one will be really short. How short? A typical interview will be 15 minutes long (although I’ve had a few that have been less than 10 minutes. In that brief amount of time, recruiters are not looking at what you say, but how you say it.  So, it’s important to speak as clearly as possible. Enunciate words and do not speak too fast, or too slow.

They Will Ask  (A Few) Questions

During the interview, you will talk to either the director of the school, or the person in charge of hiring. After they give you a brief introduction about the school, they will ask you a  few basic questions about the school. Here are a few questions I was asked during the interview process:
  • How did you hear about our school? Be as honest as possible. If you heard great things about the school online, say that. If you were recommended from a friend, that’s even better.
  • Why do you want to come to Korea? It’s good to list a few “PR” reasons here. “I’ve always wanted to teach children,” and “I am interested in learning more about Korean culture” are good responses. I did a combination of both in many of my interview answers: “I love to travel and teach, and it seems that South Korea would allow me to pursue both opportunities.”
  • Why do you think you will be a good teacher in Korea? Emphasize good qualities that you can list from your resume.  For example, you could say, “I love teaching and working with children,” or, “I have previous teaching experiences.” I talked about my previous tutoring positions and working as a dance coach.
  • Moving to a new country is a big adjustment. How good are you at adapting to a new situation? Talk about a time in your work or school experience that shows you are capable of adapting quickly to a new situation. If you have traveled extensively or studied abroad, both would be great examples.

Don’t Ask (too many) Questions

In many Western countries, it’s a good idea to ask questions. In some ways, asking questions shows that you are paying attention and interested in a topic.  This is not the case in South Korea. Although it is good to ask one or two questions, do not ask too many questions directly to our prospective employer.  Asking too many questions shows some employers that you are inept and unable to perform a job.  Ask 1-2 questions, and leave the rest for recruiters afterward, or within an email exchange.  here are some good questions to ask:
  • How many hours a week would I be teaching?
  • How many foreign (as in Western teachers) will I be working with?
  • What is the age range of my students? (If not posted online)

After the Interview

It’s not necessary to send a follow-up thank you email. Most of the time, you should here from the school within a few hours or days.  If you have not heard from a school in almost a week, email the recruiter or the contact person.
From there, it’s time to negotiate a contract!

Shanghai Living: Jade Buddha Temple, Former residence of Mao Zedong and Contest winner!

Wow it is hard to believe that it has been almost two months in China. Soon it will be Spring Festival here. Spring Festival is China's biggest holiday. I am looking forward to the time off and checking out some things. Travel may be impossible during this time as everyone is travelling in China at that time. I will check out some more things in Shanghai and possibly buy a motorcycle. Ok more than likely I will buy a motorcycle, as long as it stops snowing.




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100K hits

Yesterday night, the hit count on this blog's overperforming sitemeter clicked past the 100,000 mark. An arbitrary value perhaps, but this little blog author welcomes any excuse for a celebration.

A big thanks go to you, the readers, for all your kind comments over the years, as well as all of the people who have been a part of life worth posting about. Of particular mention is my wonderful wife, who is currently 5 months pregnant and looking after herself in Seoul until February, when I return. I'll continue to blog for the foreseeable future and will try to make it more interesting and informative as time goes on.

Here's to the next 100K!

Korea Is A Safe Haven...For International Child Abduction. Not Good.

Korea Faces More International Child Custody Controversies
The Hague Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction is a multilateral treaty, which seeks to protect children from the harmful effects of abduction and retention across international boundaries by providing a procedure to bring about their prompt return. The "Child Abduction Section" provides information about the operation of the Convention and the work of the Hague Conference in monitoring its implementation and promoting international co-operation in the area of child abduction. (Hague Conference on Private International Law, a global inter-governmental organisation.)
This is a list of Hague Abduction Convention Countries.  Conspicuous by its absence?  South Korea.  This is going to be a huge problem for Korea.  First, it is well-known that interracial marriage is increasing in Korea and abroad.  The reason?  Koreans are migrating to other countries for work and education.  It is inevitable that people meet their spouses through "non-traditional (whatever that means)" methods.  Second, the divorce rate in Korea is rising.   If you put the first and second facts together, then it is mere common sense that suggests that the children of interracial couples, or couples whose home country may be different from one another, will be subject to extreme controversy.

Individual Stories Are Making Headlines, One Case at a Time
Last week, in The New York Post, this dramatic story appeared regarding a child hidden in Korea by the father in Korea.  This is not the only story of its kind.  Earlier in the year, a slightly different case was made public, and attracted a great amount of notice. 

Other countries who have not ratified the Hague Abduction Convention have been widely criticized.  The most obvious example:  Japan has also not ratified the Hague Abduction Convention, despite international criticism.   While Korea allegedly recognizes foreign decrees of law, the New Yor Post article strongly suggests otherwise.  The mother had a decree from a U.S. court, but Korean law enforcement officials were of no help to her as she struggled to locate her child in Korea. 

How Korea Handles These Cases Will Be An Important Litmus Test
One of the central ideas of the Seoul Gyopo Guide is that Korea has an outmoded social and legal system, which is not in step with other areas of its rapid development.  There are undoubtedly countless other stories like the two that have been mentioned:  it is a certainty that many more exist, and have not yet received any publicity.  There has been the suggestion that Korea would eventually adopt the Hague Abduction Convention.  However, that has not been the case, yet.  Even if the Hague Convention is adopted in Korea, it is not clear that Korea will enforce the Hague Convention.  Korea has had an exceptionally poor record with respect to following international norms in many areas that interface with the law.  Perhaps only extreme amounts of negative publicity will force Korea to conform to international standards.  Time will tell, but one thing is almost a certainty: the number of cases will inevitably rise, given the social trends within Korea (more divorces), and the great number of Koreans with experience living outside Korea.  How Korea handles this area will serve as another litmus test in determining whether or not Korea is continuing to join the international community.


Zoo Animals

There are times when the feelings you feel can't be explained well in words. It seems a bit unfair then, that it's exactly these times when we can't express ourselves well that we feel like we should try.

Maybe it's just an attempt at trying to understand ourselves. Why do we feel this way? What makes us feel this way? How can we change it? Or at least, how can we gain control over it?

At some point, haven't you asked yourself these questions?

In all honesty, I don't mind these times so much. I may even be occasionally content with them, especially after I've managed to express them a bit in some way, even if that expression is almost entirely incorrect.

So, if I try to charade an elephant and it comes across to you as "Zebra" then it's not a total loss. After all, you can still find those two animals in the same hemisphere. Or at least in the same zoo.

I guess what I'm trying to say is...

Cheers to zoo animals.

Until next blog,

~A.








Random pictures: the 39th part

As with other posts with a ‘Random Pictures’ title, these are photos that are too interesting to keep to myself, but didn’t fit in with any other post. Enjoy!

Yes, these are models. No, these are not zombies. If you were confused too, raise your hand. Seen in Myeongdong, Seoul.

Mario! As we all know, this hero of Nintendo fame really knows how to sell clothes. Seen in Gwangju.

You’ve just gotta love the art seen in pedestrian underpasses. Seen near Noksapyeong station in Seoul.

The Jurassic Park tour bus?! Sweet! Seen in Namyangju while visiting one of the royal tombs in Namyangju.

Apparently, there’s more than just an app for this church – they’ve got the GodPhone in their pockets. Wonder if that comes with a contract…

The brief snow my area saw in early December was beautiful on the piano-like benches.

I love it when the sky gets all dramatic and the trees get all silhouette-y.

Half of Korea’s yin and yang symbol; the other half’s on the other door. Seen in Namyangju, east in Seoul.

This is either hideously ugly, or a cute touch to promote yet another coffee shop. Seen in Gwangju.

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How to Learn Korean Online For FREE!

These are the only websites you’ll ever need to learn Korean.

Koreans bow to a statue of Sejong the Great, the fourth king of the Joseon Dynasty, on Gwanghwamun Square in Seoul. King Sejong introduced Hangul, the 28-letter Korean alphabet, to Koreans in 1446. Photo: Peter DeMarco

Have you just arrived in Korea and can’t read a single item on a restaurant menu? Or have you been here for years and are ready to improve your language skills beyond “mekju juseyo!” If so, start learning Korean from one of the many great websites available online…for FREE:

1. Korean Class 101

  • This is hands down the “fastest, easiest, and most fun way to learn Korean,” as they advertise on their site. There are FREE podcasts every week for all levels. Each podcast is around 10 minutes long. Just search for it on iTunes. You can also upgrade your account for a fee to get lots of cool extras. Visit the site for more details.

2. Learn Korean Online

  • Rob Julien, a teacher of Korean to foreigners in Korea, has put together a site where you can watch over 4 hours of class video for FREE. Even better, you can email him a question and he might discuss it in his next video class. His site is definitely worth a look.

3. Let’s Speak Korean

  • Some years ago, Stephen Revere – the author of Survival Korean and current managing editor of 10 Magazine, hosted a show on Arirang TV called Let’s Speak Korean. Today you can view well over a hundred episodes online for FREE. What is interesting about the show is that each episode is only 10 minutes long. It’s short, simple, and to the point.

4. Sogang Korean Program

  • The Korean Language Education Center at Sogang University has put together an excellent FREE site full of information and exercises to help you learn Korean.

5. Korean Multimedia Dictionary

  • Indiana University made an outstanding FREE site for learning Korean vocabulary. What’s great about it is that you can learn vocabulary by categories. For example, click on “fruits” and a screen will pop up with pictures of an apple, watermelon, pear, etc.. Next, click on the fruit and you will not only see the word spelled in Hangul, but you will hear the Korean pronunciation of it. Amazing!

6. Korean Alphabet

  • Another fantastic FREE site from Indiana University that will teach you the Korean alphabet.

 

 

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