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"Thank you anyway!" and other misuses of English

This is an open question to anyone who lived in the Republic of Korea 2002-2003:

Do you remember when Koreans began using the expression, Thank you anyway, in the same way a person would say, Thank you very much or Thank you kindly?

It's interesting because, as anyone who's lived in the ROK can attest, Koreans tend to think and act the same as all other Koreans, as if there were some kind of collective unconscious at work.  Korean-Koreans (Koreans who live in Korea and are not Kyopos or other Korean-_______s -- they love to begin sentences, "We Koreans..." as if ALL Koreans were in agreement with whatever they were saying.  In most cases, they ARE in agreement -
- gotta support the team! Puddy

Flashback to 2002.  I was living in Seoul and my Korean ex, YD from the Culturebook series, she would ask me to do her a favor, and then, after I'd completed the task, when the time came for expression of gratitude, YD would look at me and say, "Thank you anyway!" 

At first, I thought it was strange -- Thank you anyway is what you say to someone who CAN'T help you.  As in: "Sorry, I can't help you."  "Thank you, anyway."  That's the correct usage.  To use Thank you anyway as a form of thank you is very  RUDE.  It's practically a non-sequeter.  YD basically started saying, Thank you anyway, EVERYTIME she thanked somebody.  We broke up soon afterward, so I never learned where she picked up that expression.

In 2002 I left Seoul and by 2003 I was living near Cheongju, working at the Korean National University of Education (KNUE), training high school and middle school English teachers.  My group, group 9, consisisted of 10 teachers ages ranging from 28 to 50ish.  Many were married with children, some were still single -- all were English teachers in public schools.  In any event, some of these TRAINEES, all of whom were proficient in English to some degree, were fond of saying, "Thank you anyway," when a simple thank you would have sufficed.

I finally began looking into the issue and discovered that somewhere (no one knew exactly where it originated, perhaps EBoYoung's English program or some other Korean-based English program) but somebody at the start of the new millennium began teaching the expression, Thank you anyway, as a way of expressing gratitude. 

Objectively, if you don't know English well, it's one more word than thank you, so it COULD very well be a more endearing form of thank you, like  thank you very much, or thank you kindly.  However, as any NES knows, adding the conditional  anyway changes the meaning substantially.

In a sense, teaching thank you anyway as a form of thank you, is a kind of lingo-terrorism, whereby students learn incorrect English and thereby inadvertently respond rudely.  They don't even realize it!  Their eyes light up in gratitude and then they say, "Thank you anyway,"  as if you did nothing!  It's like when Cheech in the movie Up in Smoke teaches Chong that 'Pendejo' means 'my very good friend' and then in the next scene Chong starts yelling out his car window to passing East LA homeboys, "Hey pendejos!"  Pendejo literally means coward in a derogatory sense, but is commonly used as one would use dumbass or moron.

I remember trying to convince my trainees that saying "Thank you anyway" is rude.  They didn 't believe me at first. Instead, they believed that the unknown, original  SOURCE was correct.  The expression's misuse could have originated on a single EBS radio program, and from there became a NEW USEFUL EXPRESSION, albeit wrong, that suddenly ALL Koreans began using, very much like ALL Koreans believing in 'Fan Death', or that 'French people eat monkey brains' or 'Korean babies gestate for 10 months'.  There are many other such 'facts' that all Korean-Koreans believe.

After a few days/weeks of my trainees investigating the matter of Thank you anyway, i.e., inteweb searches or talking to other foreign born NES instructors, they began to realize that I was correct and all trainees stopped using the expression Thank You Anyway to express gratitude.  It actually took a long time for my trainees to finally come around.

People will believe anything if they trust the Source. Gotta support the team!

In conclusion, I know not how many people actually read this blog.  I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, to all those who read my blog reguarly, for all your support and your readership,

"Thank you anyway!"  I mean, "Thank you!" 


Naewansa

Today we got to leave school at "2" to do some staff bonding. I'm not sure why they planned to have us leave at 2 since everyone teaches until 2:10 on Monday and then have to get the students cleaning and such. In any case, instead of grading papers and lesson planning we managed to head out by 3 to Naewan Temple (Naewansa) for a bit of "hiking" followed by food. Excited by the prospect of a bit of light hiking I brought out my full North Face gear and layered up.  We arrived at the gate where most of the teachers promptly decided it was too cold to hike (??!) and drove around to the temple. We walked maybe 200 meters. I would have preferred to walk with the few teachers that did but not speaking much Korean I was confused about what was going on sort of thrust back into a car. I didn't mind terribly, it was still ridiculously gorgeous. Observe:
We are actually having a bit of autumn this year instead of heading straight into freezing weather. My co-workers laugh at my layers (I wore 2 shirts, 1 cashmere sweater, a fleece, and a winter coat...not to mention the leggings under my pants, hat, scarf, and mittens) but I maintain that it's warmer than winter. I just don't like being cold.
I asked my co-teacher about the funny bricks. Apparently they are for making some sort of soy product? Anyone have any insight into this?

Likewise, I have no idea why they were stringing persimmons but they sure do look pretty.
I love door pictures. Absolutely can't get enough of them. I can't count how many strange stares I've gotten for taken pictures of doors while traveling but I tend to get stared at no matter what, I might as well be doing something that I enjoy. Besides, isn't the turtle cute?
I wanted more time to play around with the light options on my camera but the teachers definitely just wanted to glance around get to the eating. I can't say I blame them. Not everyone got to start off their day with leftover homemade pancakes made from scratch drizzled in maple syrup.

Spaz update: We were talking about family at the table in sort of Korean/English. Three female teachers all had older brothers, 'oppa' in Korean. Unfortunately I tried to ask a male teacher in Korean if he had an 'oppa.' Apparently I implied that he was a woman because males use different words to refer to their siblings than females which I sort of knew but can never remember (let alone remember that 2nd male vocabulary set). He laughed riotously though it took a few minutes of trying to explain what was so funny. I will probably remember not to ask boys about their 'oppas' anymore. Probably.

nostalgia

dear athens,
i tried to write a poem about you at the request of a friend. all it did was make me realize that i’m not a good enough writer to ever eloquently say what makes you so wonderful. i feel like one of the guidestones is sitting on my chest i miss you so bad, so i thought about all the exquisite fall days i got to have there and felt nostalgic…

like for that day we killed a whole bunch of chickens.


i miss my old friends and the things we used to do together and how it almost never required going to bars.


thank goodness some of those old friends happen to be here, too.

seems like back then, someone always had a stringed instrument on hand.

it feels like it all ended so shortly after i realized what a spectacular time i ws having, and if i ever get to come back and do it again, i will feel like this:

meanwhile, keep the coffee delicious for me

and keep the hunger alive.


 

an artsy day

first, an anecdote: on monday, wednesday and friday afternoons, i have my rowdiest and generally most terrible class. they’ve been getting better lately, thanks to a talk from my boss about how i have to act like i actually like these kids to get them to want to listen to me. after friday, i think i might be able to stop pretending.

the topic of discussion this month is “express yourself.” so i asked the kids, ‘how do you like to express yourselves?” linda raised her hand.
linda: i study
me: umm… good try, linda, but that’s not exactly a way to express yourself. does anyone else have any ideas?
edward: i play computer games!
me: that’s a little closer, but still not quite. think about an art activity that you like to do.
linda: i clean my room!
me: uhhh… let’s listen to some songs, and how about you tell me what the person who wrote it was trying to express about himself.
*adagio for strings*
entire class: SOMEONE DIED!
me: awesome! yes, totally! they play this song at funerals all the time! let’s try another one.
*rock lobster*
edward: he is amused!
me: *bursts with joy*

so anyway, spent the weekend doing and viewing a bunch of the stuff i gave my kids as examples of how they can express themselves. first up, the international food festival!

that guys carved those roses from radishes! my friend jin and i made chicken and dumplings for the U.S. foods booth and watched koreans make disgusted faces at us one after another, even after a brilliant girl in our group came up with the genius marketing tag “migook mandu.” there were too many cooks in the kitchen, so i left early and saw my friend da-in’s lovely art at an opening.

and took some sneaky pictures of the friends.

britt kee irvin: too cute.

then it was off to another opening by our friend kay2, who does graffiti. it was fragrant! and participatory!


believe me when i say that kay2 is a much better graffiti artist than 20 of his friends sharing one wall.

we scooted outside to escape the fumes in time to watch the cops circle the block, rubbernecking us over and over again. aren’t we foreigners so weird!

the next day, i cook cook cooked, and we took a motorcycle ride and found some of the prettiest photos i’ve ever had the opportunity to take here in korea. and of course, i didn’t bring my camera. that’s all i’ll say about the lovely things i saw, as mark johnson once told me that it’s lame to talk about pictures you didn’t actually take. i’ll go back someday…


Did I Marry A Tea-Partier?

I guess some foreigners in Seoul took the official line seriously. They expected something special for the chance to host an international diplomatic spectacle. All my wife could say about the recently concluded G20 summit in Seoul was, that she resented how her taxes went to give foreign journalists free sandwiches when they should have been forced to eat on the local economy. All the koreaphoria set them all up for a downfall.

The ROK is irritatingly mercantilist, and Americans are right to think Korea cheats on trade. So if Koreans actually wanted the G-2o to be a success, how about dialing down the protectionism and currency ‘fine-tuning’ (i.e., sterilization of inflows to favor big exporters like the ship companies)? I am hardly one to defend the US auto industry for making cars that no wants to drive and that wreck the environment, but Ford nails it with this write-up. So the Chosun Ilbo says Korea should be a good global citizen, but that’s not what Korea really cares about in the G-20. In Korea-land, the G-20 is an opportunity to preen, not what it actually is, a global economic coordinating body. In the words of no less than the SK president, the G-20 in Seoul means, “Koreans are great and that the world is now recognizing that fact.” Somehow I doubt that is what Medvedev, Singh, Kirchener, and all the rest had in mind. Sigh.

The Economist offered its own criticism of Seoul’s speculative opportunism. And then, there’s the lucky outcome for a bad trade deal. This is all preface, I might add, to a pro-freer trade perspective.

In a period of immense risk in international trade diplomacy, and fragile recovery within industrial countries from the global financial crisis, it would be immensely dangerous to send a signal that trans-Pacific trade relations are about to bifurcate into fractious camps.

There is of course an alternative. It is the global system that has created the Asian opportunity and will continue to make or break it.

President Obama might well heed the advice of former USTR and now World Bank President, Robert Zoellick, who points out that the 6 per cent growth rate of the world’s developing countries means they will need ‘precisely the kind of high-value goods that generate well-paying jobs’. Doing the Doha deal is the quickest route to these markets. And, as Findlay argues, progress with TPP can, and needs to, be tied to the global system by taking regional liberalisation and reform commitments for multilateralisation through the WTO.

As the US hosts APEC next year, it will be critical to take a grand-slam, forward-looking agenda like this to the table, not go along slavishly and naively with pursuit of an old-fashioned US-style series of FTAs disguised as a grand-sounding Trans Pacific Partnership.

This failed spectacle is just a small reminder, that managed, mercantilist deals are not free trade, actually the worst enemy of it.

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Filed under: Academia, Australasia, Business/Economy, East Asia, Globalization, IGOs, Korea, Politics, Subscriptions, USA Tagged: apec, barack h. obama, free trade, g20, rok, South Korea, the economist

No Amy, Democrats Don’t Need to Care about Religion

Amy Sullivan can identify a “religious” voter, but I doubt it’s anything more than a secondary characteristic.


I question there are enough voters – people we assume will vote without being stampeded by some machine – who identify predominantly as a member of a denomination or as a religious voter in general. Targeting an issue or “values” is empirically more useful and worth the get out the vote effort. I would debate a “values” issue – like jobs or military spending – with someone. I also think this “problem” is a symptom of the first past the post, winner take all structure of the American electoral system. A proportional STV system would make Sullivan’s concerns relevant.


Filed under: 2010 Elections, bhtv, Politics, Religion, USA Tagged: amy sullivan, christianity, jeff sharlet, voting

Nye and the Return of Asia

I like how Joseph Nye in this TED Talk frames the “rise” of Asia – including China – as the “return” of Asia.

What he doesn’t note, though, is the easy alignment of mercantilist economic policies and realist international relations theory. It’s interesting to note, too, in what the Wikipedia article lists as the causes for mercantilism, the same emphasis on transition that Nye emphasizes. Particularly, there’s the monetarist cause, when 18th Century Britain exported gold to pay for Chinese goods. “Mercantilism developed at a time when the European economy was in transition. Isolated feudal estates were being replaced by centralized nation-states as the focus of power. Technological changes in shipping and the growth of urban centers led to a rapid increase in international trade.” What seems compelling here is, that mercantilism is a stop-gap measure, not a coherent paradigm, during transitions between hegemonic periods.

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Filed under: Academia, Business/Economy, East Asia, Social Science, TED Talks, YouTube Tagged: china, international relations, joseph nye, mercantilism, realism

Indoor Climbing Gym ~ Daejeon




Now that its goetting really REALLY chilly here, it has become too cold to climb at the big outdoor climbing wall at The World Cup Stadium here in Daejeon. But never fear fellow rock climbers (*I feel so cool saying that, now that ive officially joined the club!) there is a great Indoor climbing gym here in Dajeon.
Membership is W60 000 a month, or W10 000 per entry if you want by day.
Directions: The following buses go to the gym, No# 103, 113, 602. The bus stop is called 헌국통신연수원 (Hanguk dongshin yeonsuwueon). Its located very near to Tanbang Station click here for a map. Once you get off at that stop, if you are facing the big green bridge, the gym will be on ur right hand side and there is a sign with a man climbing. The name of the gym is Konglish (kaliming gim but in Korean) :)
Its just a bouldering gym, so a good place to get  a good work out, & get strong for the climbing season (or so I am told hehe)
:) 



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