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Let's Celebrate! Spring Foods Feast

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Lately, I've been doing quite a few posts about Spring (HERE, HERE and HERE).  I guess it's no secret by now that it's probably my favorite season.   In the Spring, nature comes alive, and I feel like I do too. Spring inspires me and I always feel so much growth and promise after the cold winds of winter have ceased.

One of my very first readers (that I didn't previously know in person), Magda had asked me some of my favorite Spring recipes. She unknowingly inspired something really cool for the future of The Empowered Way.   In an effort to promote the beauty and importance of eating seasonal food, The Empowered Way will host quarterly "feasts" or potlucks that coincide with the 4 seasons!! How fun is that!?

Last Saturday we kicked off the first ever "Spring Foods Feast" I invited some of the coolest peeps I know for the initiation- sadly, a few good friends couldn't make it.. you know they were in Thailand, or Gyeong Ju, or preparing their Master's thesis, or being awesome musicians.. the standard excuses.

So, I gave my guest just a few criteria for their recipes:
  • The food has to be seasonal or have a seasonal item as the star of the entree.
  • The food must be as "whole" as possible.
  • The food must not contain any animal products.
As I suspected, they took on the challenge and passed with flying colors! I'm pretty lucky to have such supportive/ great cooks/ awesome people as friends. Here is some radiant pics I took while preparing for them to come over.. even if you hate vegetables, these pics will leave you drooling.

Lots of chopping, slicing and rinsing
The textures and colors!

Can't you taste the freshness of Spring!
Tiny and beautiful sprouts
Can you believe these colors! This is not photoshopped! GORGEOUS!
Steamed spinach and lentils and peas- OH MY!

Just wait until you see what the fresh and seasonal ingredients can make.

Spring Feast Recipes

First thing is first. SHOTS!!!!!!!!!!!
That's right! SHOTS! For those of you that know me, you know alcohol is not my thing. But I found something better and before anyone could eat, they had to take these drinks down in one gulp. 
What is it you ask? Well... I guess it's the opposite of alcohol, really. This is a liver detox juice that was made from that gorgeous pic above of the purple cabbage, lemon and celery. I also added some Asian pear for some sweetness. These tasted PHENOMENAL... but maybe I'm partial. ;)

Spring Liver Detox Juice
2.5 Cups of Purple Cabbage
4 Stalks of Celery
2 Cups of Asian Pear
Half of a lemon (peel and all)
Directions: 
* Put everything through your juicer and garnish with sprouts. The ones I used were a tad spicy for added cleansing effects.


APPETIZERS

A crowd pleaser!!!! This has everything you CRAVE in a dip. No one will ever know it's vegan!!


          TIPS FOR AVOCADOS:

  • To find out how to select and cut an avocado, check out this video HERE
  • Notice that the pit was left in with the avocado dip? Leave it in with your avo mixture (guacamole, etc) and it will not turn BROWN! It's magic. This dip was made the night before taking this pic if you can believe it! Thanks Ashley and Careena for sharing this tip!




Mindy came to our potluck on the way out of the country, but she STILL managed to bring this incredible dish!! She is also an avid photographer and AMAZING yoga teacher! Check out her websites HERE and HERE! Is there anything she can't do!?


MAIN COURSES


When heating oil to a high temp, try to always use Coconut oil (as shown here). It is the only heat safe oil that doesn't get damaged when heated. This tabouli is pictured garnished to perfection with tomatoes, cucumbers, and dried tomatoes.



You really can't go wrong with these! Don't worry about getting the measurements for the filling 100% perfect. Add whatever you want, as long as it's not too watery, it will work! I garnished with dried dill.



Meagan says that the balsamic vinegar in this recipe is the "secret".  It really adds dimension to this incredible recipe! Aside from being dynamite in the kitchen, she is an avid traveler and writer. Check out her awesome book HERE- she wrote about her YEAR journey through Thailand! 
And her blog can be found HERE as well!


I also added thin Thai noodles to the Spring rolls, they added a nice texture variant but aren't needed. 

    TIP: To work with rice paper the most effectively, I've found this easy method. Get a bowl of [not quite boiling] water and stick in your rice paper perpendicular to the counter. Spin it like the steering wheel of a car until the little patterns on the paper are almost gone. You will have a totally manageable piece of rice paper that is ready to go!

I served the rolls with a sweet & sour and a peanut ginger dip. Recipes to come in the future.


DESSERT


Our friends Kristie and Adam had a busy day ahead of our potluck, so they stopped by and got some awesome cherries and pistachios before coming! They were the perfect end to the meal!!!


WOW! We had such a great time at the potluck! ANDDD... we had LEFTOVERS for our 6 Year Anniversary picnic the next day (PICNIC PIC)! I'm already looking forward to our summer feast! I want to possibly make it BIGGER next time, but I have NO IDEA how I'm going to be able to make little recipe cards for everyone... SHEW! That took a while! Thanks so much to everyone that came out to help me celebrate the beauty of the Spring bounty!



What are some of your most favorite recipes to cook in Spring?
Also, let us know if you try any of our recipes! We'd love to hear from you!!

Love and Greens,
Meg

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Smoking Ban: The Era of Korea as a Smoker`s Paradise Soon Coming to an End

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From: BusanHaps.com

Since there are very few places in Korea where you can’t light up, smokers have come to love the place. Those days are soon coming to an end as strict new laws kick in at the end of this month and the era of the public smoking ban hits Korean shores.

BUSAN, South Korea -- Korea, for better or worse, has long been a smoker’s paradise. You can light up just about anywhere in the ROK with little worry of repercussion either legally or socially.

Well, those days (and nights) are soon coming to an end as the six-month grace period for the country’s strict new public smoking laws come into effect at the end of this month. And when we say “strict”, we mean strict.

Starting July 1, owners of restaurants, cafes and bars with ground space of more than 15 square meters will be hit with penalties of up to 5 million won (US$4,480) if their customers are found lighting up on the premises.

The first offense by businesses allowing customers to smoke will be 1.7 million won, the second 3.3 million and then the big 5 million smack-down kicks in for the third.

The government has promised it will not take the law lightly and will begin routine crackdowns once the new regulations take effect, including regular patrols stopping into businesses establishments for a look and sniff of the atmosphere.

Not only are businesses being targeted with fines, but so are the smokers themselves. If caught smoking outside designated public smoking areas, those puffing up will be dinged with a 100,000 won ($89) fine for their nicotine fix.

An association of Internet cafe owners, called the PC Room Owners' Coalition for Survival, has called on the government to delay enforcement of the law to 2015. The group fears that the smoking ban will force nearly 40 percent of Internet cafe owners out of business.

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2013 Seoul LGBT Film Festival Day 6, Tuesday, June 11th

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First up on Tuesday at 12:30 is the Korean film 미쓰 홍당무 (Crush and Blush). A film from 2008. Korean without subtitles. Yang Mi-sook is an unpopular and frumpy high school Russian teacher, who has a habit of going red in the face. For ten years she has been harbouring a crush on Seo Jong-cheol, her former teacher and now married colleague, though he is more interested in pretty new teacher Lee Yoo-ri. Mi-sook tries to put a halt to this blossoming romance, forming an unlikely alliance with Jong-cheol's daughter, Jong-hee. (Wikipedia)

Next at 14:30 are Leesong Heeil's 지난여름 갑자기 남쪽으로간다 (Suddenly Last Summer and Going South)

At 17:00, there are Two Korean films: 2의 증명명 (To Become Two) and 로즈 온 에어 (Twenty minutes)
To Become Two: Hong You-jung, who had lived her 42 years of life as a legally dead, is now preparing to apply for the gender correction procedure. She cannot afford to take a sex reassignment surgery (SRS) and her neighbors keep discouraging her by saying that her attempt will come to a failure. Korean with English subtitles. 
The last film of the evening is Kiss Me at 19:30. MIA (Ruth Vega Fernandez) and FRIDA (Liv Mjönes), both in their thirties, meet each other for the first time at their parents' engagement party. Mia's father, Lasse (Krister Henriksson), is about to get married to Frida's mother, Elizabeth (Lena Endre), which will make Mia and Frida stepsisters. Lasse's daughter, Mia, has not visited her father in years and arrives with her boyfriend, Tim (Joakim Nätterqvist), with whom she is about to get married. As Mia and Frida get to know one another, strong emotions begin to stir between them. Their relationship will turn everything upside down for everyone close to them with dramatic consequences. (IMDB) Swedish with Korean subtitles.



Queer Links from the Week

Printer-friendly versionI don't know how I've ended up doing these posts on Monday... Anyways, here are a bunch of links from pride (and a couple of extras)
Aramis International: Aramis International Korea Members
Arirang TV: Korea Today - Gay in Korea | 국내의 성소주자들
Caitlin O'hara Blog: Korea Queer Festival
Chincha: In Pictures: Korea Queer Festival
Hankyoreh: Queer culture festival
Hyperactive Gay Boy: Korea Queer Festival 2013
Margaret Cho: Trailer for IN TRANSITION
STL Does 대한민국: Banging Kboys (thanks for the shout-out last week)
Upstart: Pride on show

LTW - MonAmi's 50th, NK Softening, BWM Center

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1. National
1) Kim Jong-un finally raises white flag

South Korean president did not budge despite vicious rhetoric from Kim Jong-un. Kim Jong-un’s envoy to Xi Jinping got a cold shoulder in Beijing last month. The military chiefs of South Korea and China agreed to expand strategic cooperation to force North Korea to scrap its nuclear weapons. Obama and Xi Jinping met in California over the weekend, agreeing to make it nuclear free in North Korea. All these have forced Kim Jong-un to wave white flags, as North Korea suddenly proposed high level inter-Korea talks on June 6, leaving the date and location at South Korea’s decision. The working level negotiation occurred on June 8 at Panmunjom in DMZ to decide the high level talk to take place on June 12 in Seoul. The topics would be reopening of Kaesong Industrial zone and Kumgang Mountain tour in North Korea. It would be the first high level talks in 6 years. 

The North Korean negotiation team in Panmunjom was headed by a woman, the first time a woman was the leader in the inter-Korea negotiation. It might be a tongue- in-cheek from Kim Jong-un. “South Koreans elect a woman as the leader of the country for the first time? I elect a woman as the leader of a negotiation team for the first time.”

2) Inbee Park wins another LPGA major title
World rank #1 Inbee Park just won Wegmans LPGA Championship after beating Catriona Matthew in sudden death playoff at Locust Hill in New York. It was her 3rd major title win after U.S. Open (2008) and Kraft Nabisco (Apr, 2013), her 7th victories in her LPGA career, and 4th this year.  There were 6 other Korean girls in the Top 10 in Locust Hill, 7 if to include Michelle Wie whose parents are Koreans. Though Park is #1 in the world, she has had trouble in finding sponsors until May when she managed to have a Korean bank, while more attractive Michelle Wie with only two LPGA wins so far has major sponsors like Nike.
 


There are only three Korean men who have won PGA tournaments; KJ Choi, Y.E Yang, and Sang-moon Bae.  How many Korean women have won LPGA titles then?  Let’s see. Seri Pak, Mihyeon Kim, Grace Park, Jiyai Shin, NaYeon Choi,……..  Well, it would be faster to count the number of LPGA winners who were not Koreans in the last 15 years since Seri Pak’s first win in 1998.

2. Economy
1) Ex-president’s son suspected of bank accounts in tax haven

Newstapa, a website run by the Korea Center for Investigative Journalism, said that Chun Jae-kook, the eldest son of disgraced ex-president Chun Doo-hwan, established a paper company in the British Virgin Islands in 2004. Prosecutors promised to investigate the case, which can shed a light on an ongoing probe of slush funds amassed by the former president, who has failed to pay fines from previous convictions , claiming he has only 290,000 won in his pocket. Established in 2012, Newstapa said there are minimum 245 Korean celebrities ranging from conglomerate executives to figures from academia and showbiz, and has been revealing the names two times a week, not all at once, possibly to boost its name recognition from lengthy exposure to the public. So far, Newstapa made public 16 celebrities with funny bank accounts in four interviews in two weeks, and has 229 more in the back pocket.   
 
My wife has shown quite interest each time Newstapa released names with banks in Virgin Islands. I could notice her disappointed look when my name didn’t come out in the interviews.

2) A legendary pen marks its 50th anniversary
The MonAmi 153 ballpoint pen is much like Bic in the U.S.  A manufacturer of stationery items, MonAmi said it sold 3.6 billion of the 153 ballpoint pens its debut in 1963.  If all the pens were laid in a line, they would stretch 486,000km(301,986 miles), or about 12 times around the globe. Song Sam-suck, MonAmi’s founder, met with an employee of Japanese stationery supplier, Uchida Yoko, who used a ballpoint pen at an industry fair in 1962, and he thought the Japanese pen could revolutionize Korean way of pen writing with dipped ink. Though 60 years have passed, MonAmi keeps making its 153pens whose design remains the same as it was 50 years ago.

MonAmi means Mon Ami, ‘My Friend’ in French. What about 153? Two stories. One is that the price was set at 15 won at the time of launch and the pen was the 3rd product from MonAmi. The other is that the founder, who was a devout Christian, thought about 153 fish Peter caught at one net throw after he was coached by Jesus. (John 21:11)   Monami 153 pen sells at 450 won (40cents) now, but the name has not changed to 4503. So the story of Peter catching 153 fish makes more sense.

3. Auto Industry
1) Bosch to invest $151M in Korea

Hermann Kaess, the president of Bosch Korea, said the company will invest 170 billion won ($151 million) this year to expand facilities in Korea in Daejeon, 170km south of Seoul. Bosch invested 60 billion won last year for gasoline direct injection system, and will be spending additional 170 billion this year for production capacity increase to 6 million fuel injection systems annually, and additional 400 jobs. The investment was a bit surprise as Bosch had rough time with Hyundai last year when Hyundai Motor took over Kefico, a joint venture with Bosch that has made key engine controls components. Bosch Korea had 2.03 trillion won sales last year.
 
With the eye popping growth of Hyundai/Kia, many foreign auto suppliers are trying to make a virgin contract with Hyundai without much success.  There are three easy ways to get this done.  Propose products no one else in Korea can make. Not possible? Then sell your products at half the price the local suppliers are selling. Still impossible? Then, have your CEO sing songs at Karaoke bar with Hyundai Chairman.

2) BMW builds a driving center in Korea
BMW broke ground for its first driving center in Asia near Incheon International Airport. The driving center will be built on 240,000 square meters of land (59.3 acres) at a cost of 70 billion won ($62 million) with a 2.6 kilometer (1.6-mile) track made up of six driving courses. BMW Korea plans to set up cultural and educational spaces showing environmentally friendly vehicles and technologies inside the center. The company added that the 12,000-square-meter recreational park will be open to everyone, including airline passengers from nearby Incheon Airport. BMW has been No.1 import for many years, selling 28,000 units last year. It was only 3,000 less than all the Big 3 and Japanese makers combined.

While only the affluent can afford to own BMWs in other nations, most of the Koreans are using BMWs for their public transportation; Bus, Metro, and Walking.

Regards,
H.S.

If You Don’t Have Anything Good to Say about My Country, Just…

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A couple of weeks ago, I was hurt, guilty, furious. I was hurt because of the offensive things said about my country over dinner with other 외국인 (foreigners); guilty because I just sat there speechless, pretending that I wasn’t listening, and I didn’t even try to refute their crude remarks. I was furious because of their insensitivity and my silence. I don’t know why I didn’t say anything to defend my country and my fellow Filipinos, when in fact, I always speak my mind. Maybe I kept mum because, I didn’t want to cause a hullabaloo. Once I start talking, there’s no stopping me until everybody listens and understands my point. In college, I was a debate queen, and until now, on several occasions, I don’t mind debating with someone who thinks he knows EVERYTHING about where I come from… well, except that day. Maybe another reason for my silence is that some of what they were saying is true.

“The Philippines is incredible! People here are so wonderful. They don’t realize that. There’s this kind of warmth I see everywhere! I notice it in the street vendor who can’t give you anything but a warm smile and a lot of love.” ~~~ Vin Diesel

 

“The Philippines is incredible! People here are so wonderful. They don’t realize that. There’s this kind of warmth I see everywhere! I notice it in the street vendor who can’t give you anything but a warm smile and a lot of love.” ~~~ Vin Diesel

 

 

 

 

Yes, the Philippines is not a rich country, but to say that the country is “so poor that people beg for money everywhere” is a mere exaggeration. One of the tactless foreigners said that even taxi drivers beg for money. It’s called asking for a tip, not begging. In the Philippines, it is common courtesy to give a tip to show appreciation for good service. We Filipinos usually tip taxi drivers. Foreigners do that, too. The kind ones even tip tricycle drivers. An American friend who visited the Philippines for the first time gave a tricycle driver 400 php for a tip. That’s almost 10 USD! The fare cost only 100 php (2.37 USD). The driver was giving her back 400 php for the 500 bill that she gave, but my friend told him to keep the change. I told her it was too much. She smiled and said that she doesn’t mind giving big tips to those who deserve it. That day, no tricycle driver wanted to drive us to where we were headed, because it was raining cats and dogs and the road going to our destination was flooded, but one tricycle driver took pity on us, cold and dripping wet from the rain.

You don’t have to give a big tip to a taxi or tricycle driver (20 to 50 php is enough), but at least have the courtesy and the heart to give a tip to someone who was of service to you, someone whose job is (probably) more taxing than yours.

Most foreigners who visit my country don’t need to be told that giving a tip is not the same as giving alms, because they take time to learn some Filipino customs before going to the Philippines, and isn’t tipping also a custom in the US?

In South Korea, tipping is not customary and is considered demeaning at times; however, my husband, who is Korean, and most of the Koreans I know don’t mind giving a tip when they go to the Philippines, and I’ve never heard them complain about it.

The foreigners went on and on about how poverty-stricken the Philippines is. They also talked aboutVietnam, being worse. I started wondering why the heck they go to other countries if they only criticize. When people travel, what is their main purpose? Isn’t it to discover, learn about other countries’ culture? to enjoy, to relax, to have wonderful memories to share with friends back home? I’m pretty sure that what these foreigners experienced in my country (or in Vietnam) wasn’t all that bad, but they made it sound as if they have been to the most abominable place in this world. Anywhere you go, even in the richest countries, there will always be poor people, people who beg for food or for a penny, people with no homes, people who need help. Should you criticize them? One of the foreigners was telling the others about “dirty street kids” following and annoying her because she is “a foreigner”. She is not being followed, because the kids think she is a celebrity; she is being followed, because the kids are hoping that she would give them coins that can buy them lunch or dinner, maybe their first meal of the day.

For almost 10 minutes of disparaging conversation about the Philippines (and Vietnam), they didn’t even consider how I and my fellow Filipina companion would feel… or maybe, they forgot that there were Filipinos present during that time. Even if there weren’t Filipinos (or Vietnamese) present, should they have talked like that about other countries in front of other foreigners?

When I started writing this post, I thought of naming all the good things about the Philippines that I can think of and have observed living there for 29 years… but I’m not going to do that. Instead, I invite you to visit the Philippines, travel around the country, get to know its people, discover its culture and if you want, you can even learn the national language. I’m sure that if you do all these things and free your mind from prejudice, you will have wonderful things to say about the Philippines. Who knows, you may even fall in love with my country, like the other foreigners who have stayed there or who keep coming back?

 


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My students have recently become fascinated with poop....

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My students have recently become fascinated with poop. Specifically, me… pooping… They draw pictures of me pooping several times a week. At first, it made me laugh. Now, I don’t know what to think. I hope this a phase they grow out of quickly. Everybody poops, you know.


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Our Weekend: Busan Sand Festival 2013

Printer-friendly versionIt was that time of year again where people congregate in Busan to see what amazing things can be done with sand. Haeundae was really, really busy. When we first arrived, we'd just missed the big water fight that they had arranged. We headed straight to the beach to check out the sculptures, as we missed them last year.

This year's theme was Hollywood. As soon as we reached the sculptures, we were greeted by one that looked like a roll of film, with all the characters from recent blockbusters. There was Spider Man, Hulk, Batman, Gollum and... PSY. I didn't know he had magical powers. I also liked the fact that there was someone dressed in a kigu whose job it was to maintain the sculpture.

There was an E.T one, a mermaid one, Marilyn Monroe, Frankenstein and many, many more.

Judging from the previous years' pictures, there seemed to be more actual sculptures before, rather than big blocks of sand with things carved into them that we saw. It did make me wonder though, whether it's some people's full time jobs to make sand statues?!

After we'd spent a while looking around the sculptures, we tried to find ourselves a spot on the beach. This was easier said than done. There were hundreds and hundreds of people along the whole of the beach. I really dislike the fact that as soon as Summer arrives, that the beach is swathed in umbrellas so no sun actually touches the sand! Luckily we managed to find somwhere, just in time to catch the air show they'd put on.

Following that, the girls from the roller derby team arrived in Busan, so we lazed around on the beach all day, chatting.

That night we tried out a new makeolli bar in Seomyeon, then headed home quite early, ready for roller derby practise the next day.

Sunday was gloomy and grey, which meant that it was the perfect temperature to be skating outside. We had a two hour practise, then I wiled away the afternoon in a coffee shop, practising my Spanish until Alex and Nick arrived having got lost on their bike ride!

It was relaxed and easy, exactly what I needed. Only 6 and a half weeks left until Summer holidays and I will be off to Beijing and Kuala Lumpur! So excited!

Kigu dressed attendent
Superhero Sand sculpture
E.T Sand sculpture
ET Sand sculpture
Frankenstein Sand sculpture
Sand Artist
The Joker Sand sculpture
Good beach attire
Busan Air Show
Busan Air Show
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Just Get Out and Shoot!

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These days I have less and less time to shoot. I have so many things on the go that I pretty much don’t have time unless I shoot inside of classrooms or from the driver’s seat of my car. However, I have started taking my camera everywhere with me just in case something pops up and I can pull over and shoot. This is a different strategy than the weekends of shooting that I normally did. At any rate, last night was one of those “Screw it! I gotta get some shots” nights.

I had just a small hour of time to shoot and I had to make the most of it. Ryan Griffiths who is a local photographer and reviewer on Photography Ebook Reviews, messaged me about a roof top in Seoungnam dong, otherwise known as “Old Downtown”. I decided, as I was drove up to it, to actually shoot from the top of it. Now, this is not as easy as it seems as parking in Old Downtown is a nightmare. Driving a a car instead of a motorcycle means that I actually have to find parking, which is another nightmare as Saturday nights are crazy down there.

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As I drove up to the parking garage, all three floors were full but as usual they were letting cars in anyway. As I drove up a car pulled out and I got a space within seconds, much to the disappointment of the guy who tried to cut in front of me and take it. At any rate, I posted this because one of the challenges I have now because I mainly drive a car. What starts off as “Screw it! I gotta get some shots” turns into “Screw this! I’m going home” but not tonight! Things really fell into place.

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As I got up to the door I quickly remembered that there was a guard front and center before the doors to the apartment. However, with a pretend phone call to a pretend person that lived in the building I just followed some people in and the guard was none the wiser. Getting to the top was interesting as there were two very noisy dogs on the 41st floor who immediately started barking as I walked passed. Being on the roof itself is difficult as well due to the fact that a large amount of people in the building next to it can see you. My advice would be to stay in the stairwell until the light drops down a bit. Don’t just wander around up there or people may think that you are think about jumping off or something.

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At any rate, The sunset was mild but the pink showed through the clouds and created some great colour. With a festival going on in the area there were also lights popping up around old downtown as well. The best thing about this times was that I had a chance to plan out my shots while waiting in the stairwell and was able to take advantage of the fading light and the blue hour without wasting any time. What resulted was a series of decent shots with a minimum about of time. I was down and out of the building in just over an hour. Parking was only 700 won too!

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Dear Korea #089 - Too Giving

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The situation depicted in this comic tends to happen far more often than I’d like to admit. I’ve literally received bruises while trying to fight for the bill at the end of a meal. This is apparently a sign of being a good friend.

While many people back where I come from prefer to go Dutch when it comes to eating out, this method isn’t practiced so much in Korea. It’s not uncommon to see one person (usually the oldest in the group) pay for everyone without asking for anything in return. Of course, this isn’t always the case, and it’s definitely not something that should be expected of anyone. When it does happen, be sure to show appreciation, as being on the receiving end of free food (or anything else) is always awesome.

The funniest incident I can think of goes back to when I was a kid. My mother and I went to eat with a family friend that we had no seen in some time. As expected, when it came time to pay, things got awkward. At first, everything was nice and friendly. There was the typical exchange of “I got this!” and “No, please! Let me!” for a bit before things got serious. After a stare-off, my mom threw a wad of cash on the table, grabbed me, and ran out of the building. Without missing a beat, her friend took the money and came after us, only to be stopped by the door (which my mom had blocked). While her friend tried to get the door open, my mom and I went into the car, trying to start it up as fast as possible so we could get away (I was mostly confused and a little scared the entire time). Just before my mom could drive away, her friend threw the cash on the car’s windshield, ran back into the restaurant, and locked the doors. I think it’s fair to say that my mom lost that one. Thank goodness we knew the owners of that particular establishment, as I’m sure we would have been banned from any other place.

It should be noted that the majority of situations are nowhere near as extreme as the one I just described. I’ve actually managed to find a nice compromise with some of my Korean friends to keep myself from feeling like a scumbag bum. If they pay for dinner, I get coffee and dessert, and we swap the order around from time to time. I have yet to find a method of making things even with the older generations. Here’s hoping those giant gift boxes of Spam and Olive Oil on holidays are enough for now.


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What Korea Needs from its New Prez: Liberalization

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ParkBefore President Park’s inauguration, the Korea Times asked me to participate in a forum of ‘foreign experts’ (don’t laugh too hard) on her incipient presidency. We were asked to make one direct suggestion for the new president. Here is the section at the KT website. I know several of the authors, and some of the op-eds are pretty good (too many are shameless pandering though). Unfortunately, my accepted submission was not published in this section, published after the inauguration, and edited far too heavily. (They never told me why; maybe this.)

Anyway, below is the original version of the op-ed, where I basically argue that Korean democracy is becoming a Seoul-based oligarchy of wealthy, intermarrying business and political elites – basically the dark side of Kangnam style. Someone in Korean politics needs to turn this around, or under-40s in this country are going to ‘drop out’ Timothy Leary-style. There’s a quiet crisis of youth alienation brewing, but no one in ‘Kangnam world’ seems to care.

 


“Liberalize Korea”

“Dear President Park,

Congratulations on your election victory –– and therein in lies your very first challenge: the alienation of young voters from the elitist, oligarchic world of Korean business and politics. A disturbing generational gap is opening in Korea, symbolized by the huge under-35 popularity of Ahn Cheol Soo in spite of an amateurish campaign. That you won overwhelmingly on the support of older Koreans is yet another marker of this generational division. Korea’s extremely low birthrate has left a hole of ‘missing voters’ at the bottom of the Korean demography.

Ironically this population skew toward the aged helped power your victory, but it should clearly be a red-flag. You cannot, as promised, return Korea to its ‘miracle’ growth days if the ‘gerontocratization’ of Korea continues apace. A rapidly aging population portends spiraling health and retirement costs, a slow-down in economic growth due to a contracting working-age population, worsening generational cleavages, and a sharp Japan-style trade-off between slow-motion decline or socially controversial mass-immigration.

As the very embodiment of the Korean establishment – descended from a wealthy, politically-influential family connected to all relevant players in Seoul – you are an unlikely figure to confront this brewing demographic/generational implosion. Indeed, your coalition sees in you nostalgia for Korea’s economic glory-days, and the left strongly suspects you ran for president to validate the past rather than lead the future. But politically, that leads nowhere.

You must surprise them all. If you do not challenge the social forces that have led Korea into this demographic/generational impasse – the insulation of the chaebol from accountability to regulators and shareholders, Confucian patriarchy, Seoul-centricity, and intense social elitism – you will be last, rear-guard defender of the old corporatist-elitist Korea, and not the first leader of the new, open liberalized Korea.

Among other policy initiatives, you might consider: at-work day-care to alleviate the work-family dilemma that all but forces Korean women to forego either work or motherhood; strict work-hour rules to curb the proliferation of the impossibly stressful 50-60 hour work- and school-weeks so common here; a major commitment to decentralization to give Koreans outside of Kyeonggi a chance to participate meaningfully in the country’s political, economic, and academic life; some anti-trust action against the chaebol to insure a measure of social mobility and equality to the rest of the labor force; and more FTAs to bring greater competition to Korean product markets.

The old cliché that Korean goods cost less in the US than they do here is disturbingly accurate. Liberalizing Korean markets, which would require chaebol reform, a proper currency float, and less cultural suspicion of ‘imports,’ would bring down prices and so reduce Korea’s staggering household debt (165% of income). I can think of few easier ways to reduce the stress on Korean families than the improvement in purchasing power that would flow from genuine market opening. Your predecessor started the ball rolling with two major FTAs. But prices in Korea for consumer goods – most disappointingly for those goods where Korea is competitive, like TVs or cars – are still far too high. I regularly suggest my students look at the Walmart website to price-compare with Korea, and they are astonished. There is still a long way for Korean consumer prices to tumble – if you are willing to push serious market deregulation, including a tougher line on chaebol oligopolization to incentive competition.

These suggestions would be disruptive, and few anticipate them from the conservative coalition your party represents. They will require you to challenge vested interests, most obviously the chaebol who benefit handsomely from the status quo of preferential access to decision-makers and the national budget. But the demographic challenge and generational cleavage will remain if you do not act. Previous presidents did little, as even Korean growth slowed. Early in the campaign you appeared to embrace a tougher stance on the chaebol and ‘economic democracy.’ In your inaugural comments, you spoke of making Korea ‘happier.’ This can be done, but it almost certainly means the liberalization of Korean politics, economics, and social life – re-incentivizing women and youth especially, that ‘success’ need not only mean expensive, punishing schooling for years in Seoul followed by a grueling, stressful corporate job at a chaebol, all while drowning in personal debt. There must be a better, more humane way.

The status quo may have served Korea well thirty years ago, but today it is an encumbrance. As you said yourself, Korea is not ‘happy.’ Divorce, suicide, alcoholism, depression are at record levels. Without change, Korea will eventually go as Japan is going now – social immobilism, gradual but obvious decline, fading geopolitical clout. The time to act is now.”


Filed under: Conservatism, Culture, Domestic Politics, Economics, Korea (South)


Robert E Kelly
Assistant Professor
Department of Political Science & Diplomacy
Pusan National University
robertkelly260@hotmail.com

 


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