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A Day Away: Yeoju [Part 2]

It was now that are day really took a turn for the better. From Sejong's tomb, we found an awesome cab driver, that spoke almost no English, but knew the area like the back of his hand. The combination of our broken Korea, travel maps, and his knowledge proved unbeatable, as he wove in and out of traffic taking us to our second destination: the birthplace of Empress Myeongseong (Queen Min). On this site are some impressive monuments, and given the recent tension on the peninsula, reminders of the conflict that has ravaged this country.

It was nearly 2pm and we needed sustenance. A handful of restaurants were open, offering non-English menus. I was able to decipher a few things and ordered Jo and I lunch. She had the tasty "Wedding Festival Soup" and I opted for the spicy "Kimchi noodles." Neither was something to write home about, but filled our bellies.

Jo and I explored the on-site museum and historical houses, but really didn't have much time there. The sun would be setting soon and there was still one more destination to reach before dark.

Silleuksa Temple is the only Korean Buddhist temple that sits on a river. While the main prayer rooms are located five or ten minutes from the water, three beautiful pavilions have been constructed right on the bank and offer a great sunset view. Thankfully, Jo and I arrived an hour before sunset and had time to explore this historical site. I was completely taken aback by the stone bell, six story brick pagoda,  and number of lanterns visible throughout the grounds.

When the sun finally set, we headed back to Yeoju city and grabbed a quick bite before catching the last bus home. It was a great day away.


Again with the farming pictures

The end of November is a pretty desolate one at a farm.

Is cabbage a flower? By the end of the weekend, I had begun to love these guys.

By the time I had finished loading these bags of cabbage my fondness was as an all-time low.  I need to brag now; every single bag on that trailer I lifted and placed.  Every one.

Perhaps we pencil pushers live sad lives if this is all I have to brag about.

My son ‘helped’ drive the tractor.

Dang vandals cutting the heads off the radish!

Actually, my in-laws did that just prior to picking.  Apparently they want the radish to dry out a little.


Busan’s 10 Best: Beyond the Festivals and Beaches

The Gwangali fireworks festival as seen from the peak of Mt. Jangsan, undoubtedly Korea's best fireworks show. ~ Photo by P. DeMarco

View slide show here.

[Note: This article was originally published in the November 2009 issue of 10 Magazine. It was updated on 11.28.10]

More than just Asia’s biggest film festival or Haeundae Beach, Busan is a vibrant city with a unique energy and the kind of eclectic mix that only port cities have. Busan is Korea’s second largest city, with almost 4 million inhabitants, and could easily be described as a city of contrasts. At times it feels like it’s on the fast track to becoming a modern and thriving city like its big sister Seoul (Busan is making a bid for the 2020 Summer Olympics), other times it looks and feels as if modernity and globalization have passed it by – but then that’s the secret of its charm.

From gritty to glitzy, this city by the sea has it all. Start your day with a morning stroll around Korea’s largest fish market and see ajumas hawking the days catch, as cigarette-smoking ajoshis fish off the pier between rows of docked boats and fish hung up to dry in the sea air. Then, bargain your way through Gukjae market alongside Japanese and Russian tourists or learn how to play baduk, a Korean board game, with local elders in Youngdusan park. Afterwards, head over to Haeundae beach for a laid back game of beach volleyball or float along Busan’s coastline on a cruise. Next, splurge on a lavish seafood dinner buffet at one of Busan’s 5 star hotels and top it off with a glass of wine while looking out at the rainbow-like light show of the Gwangan Bridge at night. And if that’s not enough, party the night away like a K-Pop star in one of the cities many live music bars or thumping clubs. What more could you ask for?

Getting There

Busan is not a compact city so it helps to plan your arrival as not to waste time and money trekking to various parts of the city. Busan’s main train station (and final stop on the KTX) is located right next to the port and Nampodong. If you are staying in Gwanganli or Haeundae beaches, exit the train station go right and walk two blocks to the 1003 express bus stop (W1,500). If you are arriving by one of the slower Semaeul trains then you can take the train right to Haeundae station. However, if you plan to stay in the central Seomyeon area, then the quickest option is to take the metro at the train station. The central bus terminal for all points north of the city is located on the outskirts of Busan at Nopodong station – the very last stop on the metro’s orange line. If you are arriving in Busan from the east then you will get off at the Seobu terminal in Sasang, right next to the metro stop after the same name. Finally, from Gimhae Airport you can take any number of airport buses that will drop you off in most parts of the city. If you take an airport taxi, do not be tricked into taking one of the black VIP taxis that cost almost 50% more than the normal taxis but provide the same service.

Where To Stay

Seacloud Hotel: If you’re looking to pamper yourself, you can’t go wrong with the Seacloud, located right in the heart of Haeundae Beach. The hotel is only a few years old, rooms are large and luxurious, with giant flat screen TVs, and computers in every room. Call and ask for the latest package deals. 051-933-1000, seacouldhotel.com

Zen Backpackers: Only a 5 min. walk from the Lotte Hotel and department store as well as the centrally-located Seomyeon subway station. This hostel is at the doorstep of one of Busan’s biggest shopping, eating, and entertainment districts. Amenities include free internet and Wifi, air conditioning, a 42″ plasma TV, kitchen, washing machine, and more. Owner June Park speaks English fluently and can give you tips about Busan. A bed in a shared dorm room is 20,000. 010-8722-1530, www.zenbackpackers.com

Love Motels Don’t be fooled by the seedy name, love motels are often nicer than “normal” hotels or guest houses and often include free cable, flat screen TV’s, and hot tubs built for two. Ask to see the room before you agree to stay. Some of the special rooms will blow you away for a few more man won (W10,000). Prices run W40,000 – W60,000.

Where to Eat

Pork Stew Alley: Busan’s signature dish, Daeji Guk Bap or pork stew, is made up of rice and chunks of pork. The locals live by it and no visit to Busan would be complete without scarfing down a bowl. The alley is behind the Lotte Department Store. Just look for a street lined with women stirring huge steaming vats of the white soup. Metro: Seomyeon station.

Jagalchi Seafood Market: The largest seafood market in the country is a site not to be missed while in Busan. On the ground floor, youユll find dozens of stalls with tanks full of all the sea has to offer. On the second floor is an array of restaurants to choose from. Outside, the tent bars are filled with friendly locals firing up charcoal BBQs for you to grill up your fresh catch, day or night. Just point, grill, and eat. Oh, and then pay. ijagalchi.co.kr, 051-249-9363

Where to Go Out

Ol’55: Bring your instrument and join one of the weekly open mic nights or play darts, shoot pool, and listen to live music. Located in the middle of the lively college neighborhood of Kyungsung and Pukyong University, you’ll be surrounded by plenty of places to party the night away. See pusanweb.com for latest events.

Vinyl Underground: also located in Kyungsung (just a few doors down from O’l 55) is a local expat institution. DJ’s here spin an eclectic mix of techno, trance, house, hip-hop, funk, drum-n-bass, this basement club fills up with both foreigners and Koreans. Check pusanweb.com for latest events.

Murp II, dubbed Busan’s most stylish club, is located in the Novotel Ambassador on Haeundae beach. The music varies from house (Hedkandi Party) and hip-hop to B-list Korean pop star concerts. An alternative is Club Maktum just down the street with a similar crowd and atmosphere. murphys.co.kr

Busan Web Sites

Pusan Web, a site run by foreigners for foreigners living in Busan, is the unofficial website of the city. Check out the “Upcoming Events” section to find the latest Open Mic, Ladies, or Political Discussion Night, poetry reading, beach volleyball meet-up, and much more.

Busan Haps is “the magazine for what’s happening in Busan.” Check out their website for the latest of what’s going on around the city.

City of Busan official website.

10 Magazine’s Busan 10 Best

1. Best Wine Bar & Lounge You can’t beat the views of Gwangan Bridge at night from the Sky Lounge on the 19th floor of Hotel Aqua Palace . In the summer, the 21st floor observation deck doubles as a cafe and bar: a must for any visitor!

2. Best Zen Pilgrimage Although most usually visit Beomeosa Temple when they visit Busan, try the seaside temple of Yonggungsa on a rocky outcrop with waves crashing against it below, for something different (bus 181 from Haeundae station).

3. Best “Hangin’ With the Locals” Experience Cheer with the locals at a Lotte Giants baseball game, by far the city’s most beloved sports team. The local soccer and basketball teams have quite a following as well. Their site is giantsclub.com, but you can’t even see it without downloading a bunch of Active X garbage, so we don’t recommend visiting on your own computer. Try it at a PC Bang. Busan Haps usually posts a game schedule on their website.

4. Best Bargain Shopping: Gukjae Market. Get all your Busan souvenirs in the city’s largest outdoor market. Bargaining is encouraged at this maze-like market in Nampo-dong.

5. Best Beach: Songjeong. Busan’s most beautiful beach with a long strip of sand minus the crowds of Haeundae. Best place for surfers to ply their trade as well. Be sure to have a beer and burger at Blowfish while your there. Take bus 181 from Haeundae station to Seongjeong Beach.

6. Best Spa: Heoshimcheong. This self-proclaimed “largest hot spring in Asia” is a must for any spa lover. With a massive domed skylight covering a number of hot, cold, and “well-being” pools, there’s no better place to get clean and get naked with the locals. Entrance is W7,900.

7. Best Beer: Heoshimcheon Brauhaus. What could be better than downing a few pints of Busan’s best brew after a day at the spa or a hike down the mountain? Although this place is extremely popular with the local older generation, the house band can really get this place rocking. They play Korean favorites as well as international hits by the Beatles and such. The best time to go is on a Saturday or Sunday evening after all the makoli-soaked ajumas and ajoshis really let loose.

8. Best Cafe Terrace There’s nothing better than sipping your latte or espresso on the 3rd floor outdoor terrace of Cafe Pascucci on Gwanganli Beach. Go at night for a great view of the Gwangan Bridge.

9. Best Buffet: Although it’s pricey, the lunch buffet at the Camelia Restauarant in the Westin Chosun Hotel on Haeundae beach is unforgettable. The view alone of the beach and ocean while you eat is worth it. Check their website for monthly specials.

10. Bar With Best View: Rock’N’Roll House is a pub and grill in Haeundae on the 14th floor of the Sea Star building overlooking Haeundae beach. It has a pool table, darts, and a fantastic view of Haeundae beach. 051.742.5553;

 

 

Bad Girl, Good Girl (배드걸 굿걸) by Miss A (미쓰에이): Lyrics, Translation, & Explanation

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Having just written that I find new girl groups virtually indistinguishable from each other these days, then I’m very glad reader “abcfsk” persuaded me to take a closer look at Bad Girl, Good Girl (배드걸 굿걸) by Miss A (미쓰에이), as I grew to like it very quickly. And not just because of the eye-candy in the music video either, which I deliberately avoided watching so as to better compare my own translation of the lyrics to the one there later.

But hell: taken from a zip-file available here, in hindsight the screenshots below didn’t really do justice to the eroticism of some of the dance moves. And which to be frank, made finally seeing the video itself almost feel like a reward for all my hard work.

No great surprise to learn that Park Jin-young (박진영) is their manager then, as he is notorious for that sort of thing. Granted, that is the way the whole Korean music industry is going these days, primarily as a means for new groups to stand out, but those groups under the JYP Entertainment label do seem to push the boundaries more than most.

Focusing on the lyrics for now though, here’s my own original translation of them, with explanations of those parts I found difficult:

You don’t know me, you don’t know me

You don’t know me, you don’t know me

So shut up boy, so shut up boy

So shut up boy, so shut up, shut up

앞에선 한 마디도 못 하더니

뒤에선 내 얘길 안 좋게 해 어이가 없어

Hello, hello, hello

나같은 여잔 처음 으로 으로 으로

본 것 같은데 왜 나를 판단하니

내가 혹시 두려운거니

You don’t know me, you don’t know me

You don’t know me, you don’t know me

So shut up boy, so shut up boy

So shut up boy, so shut up, shut up

In front of me you can’t say a word

And I can’t believe the bad things you say about me behind my back

Hello, hello, hello

I think this is the first time you’ve ever met a woman like me…why do you judge me?

Am I a thing to be feared?

( Source, all screenshots: Red and Rosy )

Starting with Line 1 of the Korean after “shut up” etc., the “더니” in “하더니” has many usages according to page 277 of my reference guide, Korean Grammar for International Learners (KGIL), but I think the most appropriate is number 1, that which “allows the speaker to affirm that some fact which (s)he directly experienced or witnessed in the past about a third-person subject is the reason or source for the state of affairs in the follow clause…the subject is usually second or third person”.

That allows the fact that the unnamed man (her boyfriend?) is reticent in front of her to be linked to line 2, that he badmouths her behind her back. But which was actually much more difficult to translate than it looked, as “뒤에선 내 얘길 안 좋게 해 어이가 없어” is literally “[me] behind as for – my story – not well do – word – not have”, which sort of looks like what I ultimately wrote, but was ripe for misinterpretation. Once my long-suffering wife told me that “어이가 없어” actually means “I can’t believe” though, then I was able to muddle along.

In line 6, the “거니” in “두려운거니” isn’t in KGIL, but I think it’s shorthand for “두려운것이에요”, or “scary thing is”. Hence I used the noun form “am I a thing to be feared?” in my translation, but of course something like “are you scared of me?” would be fine too.

Now for the chorus:

겉으론 bad girl 속으론 good girl

나를 잘 알지도 못 하면서

내 겉모습만 보면서

한심한 여자로 보는 너의 시선이 난 너무나 웃겨

춤 출 땐 bad girl 사랑은 good girl

춤추는 내 모습을 볼 때는 넋을 놓고 보고서는

끝나니 손가락질 하는 그 위선이 난 너무나 웃겨

On the outside I’m a bad girl, on the inside I’m a good girl

While you don’t know me well

While only looking at my outward appearance

Thinking of me as a pathetic woman is so laughable

When I dance I’m a bad girl, but when it comes to love I’m a good girl

When you see me dance you lose your mind

Only then to scorn me when the dance is ended

I laugh at your hypocrisy

In line 1, I was surprised that “으로” was used instead of “에”, as I’d always thought the former was used mostly for directions and processes rather than physical locations, but my wife assures me that the latter can’t be used at all in this case (oh well). She also told me that in line 4, “pathetic” would be a much better translation of “한심하다” than the “pitiful; pitiable; wretched” and so on that my dictionary gave; that in the case of line 6 at least, “모습” really means just “me” rather than “outward appearance” or “figure”; and finally that “넋을 놓고 보다” means “to lose one’s mind”, which I would never have got figured out otherwise. I did realize that “보고서” at the end looked a bit weird though – “a written report” – and ultimately the “고서” in it turns out to be one more grammar pattern. Which according to p. 251 of KGIL, has the effect of:

…tightening the relationship between the preceding and following clause, and implying that the contents of the second clause are a natural and closely linked follow-on to those of the first. In other words, whereas “고” alone is appropriate when a long interval intervenes between the two clauses, “고서” is appropriate when the connection is more immediate”.

Finally in line 7, of course “끝나니” is short for “끝나니까”, or “because it finished”. Add “scorn” and “hypocrisy” in there as well, then whatever the particulars of the last 2 lines, I got the impression that the man is captivated by her dancing, but then scorns and thinks little of her as soon as she stops and the spell is broken. Hence laughing at his hypocrisy, although now I’m little confused about the narrative of the song as I type this, as by this stage at least I thought the whole point was that she shouldn’t be judged by her outward appearance and actions…whereas now it appears that they’re actually also her strong points.

이런 옷 이런 머리모양으로 이런 춤을 추는 여자는

뻔해 ha 네가 더 뻔해, 오~

Hello, hello, hello

자신 없으면 저 뒤로 뒤로 뒤로

물러서면 되지 왜 자꾸 떠드니

속이 훤히 보이는 건 아니

A woman with those clothes, that hairstyle, and doing that dance

is shameless? Ha! You’re even more shameless, oh~

Hello, hello, hello

If you have no confidence, you can step back back back there

Why do you frequently make so much noise complaining about me?

I can see right through you

In line 4, I was a little confused for a moment by “저”, which is short for “저기” or “there” rather than being the respectful form of “me”. And then by “자신 없으면 저 뒤로 뒤로 뒤로 물러서면 되지” in lines 4-5, which literally means “confidence – if not have – there – towards the back towards the back towards the back – if step back” and looks like an unnecessary and confusing repetition to me.

Finally, line 6 was a big stumbling block: first, I originally thought “아니” meant “no”, but it’s actually “know”, as in “알다”. Then, “훤하다” means “gray, dimly-lit”; “extensive, broad and wide, spacious”; “good-looking”; and finally “be familiar with” and I was plumping for the first meaning until my wife said the last would be better.

Speaking of whom, to anybody envious at my Korean ability evident in translations in numerous earlier posts, and surprised at (and tired of) how much I’ve needed my wife’s help this time(!), then, well, I’d be lying if I said she didn’t have a huge role in correcting my numerous mistakes and explaining things after I do the original translations (I probably wouldn’t be able to properly provide any at all without her). I just haven’t mentioned that before because I usually don’t talk about the translation process itself, and how much time and effort it takes us.

Which gives me a newfound respect for those studying Korean entirely by themselves! But getting back to the lyrics though, after the above there’s the chorus again, and then the final verse:

날 감당 할 수 있는 남잘 찾아요

진짜 남자를 찾아요

말로만 남자다운 척 할 남자 말고

날 불안 해 하지 않을 남잔 없나요

자신감이 넘쳐서 내가 나일 수 있게

자유롭게 두고 멀리서 바라보는

I’m looking for a man who can bear me

I’m looking for a real man

Not a man who only talks like a real man

Is there no man that I don’t make uneasy?

Who can’t give me the freedom to watch me become a woman overflowing with confidence?

Finally, an easy verse! Any fellow Korean learners, please feel free to ask me about any of it, but otherwise that’s the whole song already, but for the chorus and finally the English opening sequence again.

Reluctantly tearing my eyes away from the singers (especially Fei {페이}) to the translated lyrics in the video then, I’m happy to say that they appear to be very similar, although there do appear to be some differences between the subjects in the some cases (in other words, I’ve got some “he”s where TheKpopSubber has “she”s and so on).

I’d like to look at those in more detail, but unfortunately I’m about to go out on a big shopping trip with my wife and kids, so for now I’ll just have to leave the post for you to enjoy as it is I’m afraid (those of you also unnerved by mistaken recent reports that North Korea was shelling again, may be happy for the distraction!). But of course, do please feel free to discuss those differences and/or anything about the song, group, and/or MV yourselves, although still knowing so little about the group then I’m going to reserve my own analysis until I’ve at least translated their second hit Breathe (브리드) next week:

Enjoy!^^

Update: Wait…one of them’s only just turned 16? Another middle-school student in a girl band?

Update 2: Given Miss A’s Chinese angle mentioned in the comments (2 of singers are Chinese, and they’ve been promoting themselves extensively there), then I’d like to point interested readers to Rowan Pease’s chapter “Korean Pop Music in China: Nationalism, Authenticity, and Gender” in Cultural Studies and Cultural Industries in Northeast Asia: What a Difference a Region Makes, edited by Chris Berry, Nicola Liscutin, and Jonathan D. Mackintosh, (2009, pp. 151-167), in which (among many other interesting things) she explains that:

( Source: The Japan Foundation )

In 2003, the Korean National Tourism Office [a major investor in the Korean wave] conducted a Hanliu tourism survey in China, Taiwan, and Hong Kong exploring attitudes to Korean culture, publishing the results online…

….It compared the impact of Korean culture with that of four “competitor” countries (the U.S., Japan, Taiwan, and Hong Kong), and in the process revealed much about Korea’s own political and nationalist concerns, particularly in relation to Japan and America. Six of the eleven options for respondents to the category “reasons I like Korean culture” reflect this preoccupation: “less sexual than Japanese culture,” “less sexual than American culture,” “less violent than Japanese popular culture,” “less violent than American popular culture,” “decreased interest in American culture,” and “decreased interest in Japanese culture.” One other echoes Straubhaar’s notion of cultural proximity: “similar in culture.” Certainly, Korea’s own music media censorship laws (which even in 1997 prohibited the displaying of body piercings, navels, tattoos, “outfits which might harm the sound emotional development of youth,” and banned violent or political lyrics), meant that Chinese TV stations could buy in Korean music videos and music TV shows knowing that they were unlikely to upset local censors. However, these questions also reflected a perception that Korea acts as a defender against excessive Westernization and as a guardian of Confucian values within East Asia. (pp. 155-156)

I wonder if those perceptions still hold true for China today, and in particular just how safe and “less sexual” than American and Japanese culture music videos like this one are viewed by Chinese TV stations?

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thanksgiving with meg

oh my god, thanksgiving!

we rented a minbak, decked it out, ordered a pre-cooked turkey from someplace called the seaman’s club, potlucked like i’ve never potlucked before and generally had the best day ever. did i mention that the minbak we rented was a block from the beach? and that, after dinner and some light napping, we trekked along the coast, past some mystery hermit’s house and onto the cliffs for a badass campfire and some 90′s alternative singalongs? bet you’ve never had a thanksgiving like ours.

rita made awesome stuffed mushrooms.

our decorations kicked ass.



eric made these wonderfully scary lion masks at our thanksgiving decoration-making party. matt napped in one.

i don’t know exactly why this happened.

i didn’t take very many pictures because i was busy stuffing my face, napping and feeling totally sniffly.

everything was great and i want to high five everyone forever.


matt stepped in skank water and had to dry his socks.

“it’s just like the great depression!”


 

I really, really like doek (떡 - rice cake). Most foreigners...



I really, really like doek (떡 - rice cake). Most foreigners don’t like their consistency, but I absolutely love it. Pictured is the cutest snack ever. Sadly, none of the people I adore in Busan appreciated this as a gift. Screw them. More 떡 for me.

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Hi, I'm Stacy. I'm from Portland, Oregon, USA, and am currently living in Busan, South Korea. Check me out on: Tumblr, Twitter, Instagram, Lastfm, and Flickr.

 

Question from a reader: dress code and physical appearance?

A reader named M.C. writes in:
I've been researching and preparing to expatriate to Korea to teach english and have some questions about physical appearance. I've read that physical appearance is important and that job applications are usually accompanied by a photo.

I have a shaved head, as well as a beard. How do Korean employers feel about short hair and facial hair?

Also, most days, I wear a pair of khakis and a casual collared shirt (the sort of shirts sold at the Gap). Would this be acceptable attire for a typical day in the classroom? I would prefer to leave my daily shirt and tie routine behind with the cubicle job I'm escaping.

[M.C]
M.C.,

Exhibit A comes from a large banner promising a 10-minute Photoshop job on your job application photos:



Note the size of the face; the other changes are a bit hard to see in this cropped photo-of-a-photo. Small faces for women are apparently more attractive. The Joongang Daily recently published a survey of how important physical appearance is in Korea.

Physical appearance is DEFINITELY important in Korea. Sending a photo with your resume / CV is essentially a requirement, and it's not uncommon for Koreans to Photoshop that passport-like professional photo to perfection (see above). While walking around some areas of Seoul, you'll be hard-pressed to find some women without makeup.

With that said, you'll generally see men with short hair, very short hair, or no hair - short hair is more business-like or professional. Women tend to find more traditional styles go over better with students - and the bosses. The key is not 'correct hair length' but neatness. Looking neat, healthy, and wearing reasonably stylish clothes that fit well will take you farther in Korea than the same would in the Western world. Westerners often try to overlook someone who forgets to shave or brush their teeth - they had to drive their kid to school, or they were running late - but excuses like that don't fly very far here.

Regarding facial hair: neatness again is the key. If it's a well-kept beard, goatee, or mustache, it's likely to be accepted as your personal 'thing'. Not shaving for a couple days just looks like you're not trying, and would not be kosher. A current co-worker of mine maintains a shaved head with no complaints from the powers-that-be (to my knowledge).

As far as dress codes go, it's a rare school that will require suits and ties. This blog poll from last year indicates formal wear (e.g. slacks and dress shirts) is common, jeans and t-shirts are fine, while suits and ties are still rare. Working with kids means a more casual dress code (or an undefined one). While working with adults, I've worn slacks and ties - but then again, my adult students were professionals and came in for class wearing suits and ties. With adults at another school, khakis and polo shirts were fine as it was a more casual environment. I jokingly told some of my adult students that we were done with work, and we could loosen our ties and breathe a little easier. With children, jeans and t-shirts has generally been fine; if parents are coming in or there's a special event, you'll notice the Korean teachers dressing to impress. Follow their lead, especially if someone explicitly states what's coming up.

This does create sort of a problem: how do you pack for a job with an uncertain dress code? The simple answer is to try and learn what it is before you arrive. After an offer has been made and accepted, it's a good question to ask if it's not addressed in the contract or your previous conversations. Err on the side of conservative or formal dress to start. You'll also find clothes to be relatively easy to find - there are 50,000,000 people wearing clothes in Korea, after all - but larger or abnormal sizes can be more difficult to find.

Women, if your sizes involve anything larger than a B-cup or if you have hips, it'll be a bit harder to find things that fit. Non-anorexic women are having an easier time of it (anecdotally speaking) than in the past. Men, pants past a 36 inch waist require a bit more effort, while shirts get to XL before needing to find a 'big man' store. For either gender, shoes can be a bit more difficult if your feet happen to be larger - or wider - than average.

If you're looking for an interview, the rule of dress to impress comes to mind. It sounds a little silly to wear a suit and tie to an elementary school, but dress to impress anyway. Again, neatness, not just any old suit and tie. If you wouldn't want to be seen dead in it, you probably wouldn't want to be seen at an interview in it either.

From a long-term perspective, you're better off bringing along clothes that fit you well, that look spiffy on you, etc. In other words, leave the mustard yellow dress shirt behind, but pack your collection of band / retro t-shirts for those Saturday nights out on the town.

Readers, any tips on finding out the dress code ahead of time? Any thoughts on packing for the trip and lifestyle?

Do you have a question about Korea? I'm happy to answer, but do me a favor and search the blog archives first - there's a good chance your question has already been answered here. If it hasn't, e-mail me your specific question at chrisinsouthkorea AT gmail DOT com.

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GMAT and the Plank: A painful combination!

Hello Readers,

It's Sunday morning here in SK and the sun is shining brightly!

Plans today include studying, laundry, studying, exercise, and then more studying.

Also I will be making regularly scheduled visits to ART ESPRESSO and CAFE BENE. I considered Rotiboy, but I doubt I'd have enough willpower today to stay away from the "Cream Cheese Boy" bun. At 218 calories it doesn't seem too bad, but man, they load that thing down with sugar!

SK Bread

Sugar. That's the issue I have with a lot of Korean baked goods. Even the breads (not the pastry items, the BREAD) is sweetened and it drives me absolutely up a wall.

I pass a bread shop and see GARLIC BREAD sitting temptingly in the window. Before I go in I have to remind myself what my first Garlic Bread experience was like here in Korea. I was so excited to see it! I went in, bought it, came out and walked home with a happy skip in my step. When I settled in to snack up on a piece, I took one bite and....

BLAH!!!!!!!!!

I didn't even chew more than once. It was all in the garbage in a heartbeat. It tasted like a garlic SUGAR COOKIE.

GMAT JOURNEY

Yesterday's blog post included some info on how my GMAT prep is going, but I somehow managed to erase it and publish without double checking so it got lost.

Anyway, in short, I sat myself down at ART ESPRESSO yesterday and took the 3 hour GMAT evaluation test.

My results?

Abysmal.

Seriously. It was bad. I didn't even finish the Math section. In 75 minutes I finished 28 out of the 37 questions. Yikes.

The unfortunate thing about my studying for the GMAT is that I have to LEARN math. Yeah, sure, I took classes in Highschool. I even took a college Algebra class. But I didn't learn anything, because my attention was never present in the classes with me.

The majority of my teen years were spent day dreaming. I'm surprised I even remember my highschool days considering that I was always a little non-present during school hours. Honestly though, a humming bird hyped up on 6 shots of espresso probably would have had more of an attention span than I did in Highschool. Especially in Algebra class.

Funny how your parents eventually end up being right about almost every single thing.

Dad and Mom: "You should really study. You need math for all kinds of things!"
Me: "I don't need math for what I want to do. Subtraction, addition, simple multiplication and division. That's all I need."
Dad and Mom: "Hm..."

5 years later

Reality: *SLAP!*
Me: "OW!!!!!!! HEY!!!!!!"
Dad and Mom: "Told you so."

Good thing I started studying early. The majority of what I've read about GMAT test prep is that you shouldn't start studying months in advance because you wear yourself out. Well 'oops' is all I can say. I'm going to be attempting to cram 2 years of lost High school algebra into my memory bank, I need whatever time I can get.

KINDNESS

I tell you what, kindness is a HUGE pick me up. Even a small kindness really makes my day. Yesterday while I was taking the practice test the owner of the coffee shop came back and presented me with a free cup of tea. She offered it to me while saying something along the lines of "You're working hard", "It looks hard" (not 100% sure there). Her facial expression gave away her sympathy towards my predicament. The tea was appreciated, and even much more appreciated was her support.

I was blessed by her. ~ ♥

Well, just for a bit of fun.

Exercise Video of the Day

Nothing fancy. It's just the "Plank".

All you fitness Gurus out there are cracking a smile, but everyone else, yeah... it looks easy, doesn't it?

My only response is:

"OMG OW!"

Enjoy.





Beauty Video of the Day

For those of you who have actually talked to me, you know that I'm nuts over make-up, beauty products, and fashion. So it's no wonder that I am in love with the following woman.

Enjoy her Holiday Make-up video and check her out on youtube here.

Introducing: Michelle Phan




Time to study!

Until next post,

~A.

GMAT and the Plank: A painful combination!

Hello Readers,

It's Sunday morning here in SK and the sun is shining brightly!

Plans today include studying, laundry, studying, exercise, and then more studying.

Also I will be making regularly scheduled visits to ART ESPRESSO and CAFE BENE. I considered Rotiboy, but I doubt I'd have enough willpower today to stay away from the "Cream Cheese Boy" bun. At 218 calories it doesn't seem too bad, but man, they load that thing down with sugar!

SK Bread

Sugar. That's the issue I have with a lot of Korean baked goods. Even the breads (not the pastry items, the BREAD) is sweetened and it drives me absolutely up a wall.

I pass a bread shop and see GARLIC BREAD sitting temptingly in the window. Before I go in I have to remind myself what my first Garlic Bread experience was like here in Korea. I was so excited to see it! I went in, bought it, came out and walked home with a happy skip in my step. When I settled in to snack up on a piece, I took one bite and....

BLAH!!!!!!!!!

I didn't even chew more than once. It was all in the garbage in a heartbeat. It tasted like a garlic SUGAR COOKIE.

GMAT JOURNEY

Yesterday's blog post included some info on how my GMAT prep is going, but I somehow managed to erase it and publish without double checking so it got lost.

Anyway, in short, I sat myself down at ART ESPRESSO yesterday and took the 3 hour GMAT evaluation test.

My results?

Abysmal.

Seriously. It was bad. I didn't even finish the Math section. In 75 minutes I finished 28 out of the 37 questions. Yikes.

The unfortunate thing about my studying for the GMAT is that I have to LEARN math. Yeah, sure, I took classes in Highschool. I even took a college Algebra class. But I didn't learn anything, because my attention was never present in the classes with me.

The majority of my teen years were spent day dreaming. I'm surprised I even remember my highschool days considering that I was always a little non-present during school hours. Honestly though, a humming bird hyped up on 6 shots of espresso probably would have had more of an attention span than I did in Highschool. Especially in Algebra class.

Funny how your parents eventually end up being right about almost every single thing.

Dad and Mom: "You should really study. You need math for all kinds of things!"
Me: "I don't need math for what I want to do. Subtraction, addition, simple multiplication and division. That's all I need."
Dad and Mom: "Hm..."

5 years later

Reality: *SLAP!*
Me: "OW!!!!!!! HEY!!!!!!"
Dad and Mom: "Told you so."

Good thing I started studying early. The majority of what I've read about GMAT test prep is that you shouldn't start studying months in advance because you wear yourself out. Well 'oops' is all I can say. I'm going to be attempting to cram 2 years of lost High school algebra into my memory bank, I need whatever time I can get.

KINDNESS

I tell you what, kindness is a HUGE pick me up. Even a small kindness really makes my day. Yesterday while I was taking the practice test the owner of the coffee shop came back and presented me with a free cup of tea. She offered it to me while saying something along the lines of "You're working hard", "It looks hard" (not 100% sure there). Her facial expression gave away her sympathy towards my predicament. The tea was appreciated, and even much more appreciated was her support.

I was blessed by her. ~ ♥

Well, just for a bit of fun.

Exercise Video of the Day

Nothing fancy. It's just the "Plank".

All you fitness Gurus out there are cracking a smile, but everyone else, yeah... it looks easy, doesn't it?

My only response is:

"OMG OW!"

Enjoy.







Time to study!

Until next post,

~A.

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