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Football and Life Changes

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I guess we all have points in our lives where we don't know what to do with ourselves. When we're faced with so many options that it just seems impossible to choose one path to follow.

I'm currently experiencing that...again.

I guess it's normal to be this age and not know what to do or where to go. Having general plans seems pretty good, but there's always the real dream underneath the practicality that keeps vying for your attention, calling out for you to realize it.

I guess the most important thing for me to do is follow my own way, listen to advice, but in the end do exactly what my heart tells me. You only live once, so deciding not to do or experience something amazing because other people are expecting something different from you is the wrong choice.

Being in a shaky situation is never ideal or fun, but I guess that the best thing to do is think about what that means for you and opportunities. Sometimes opportunity comes knocking quietly and subtly on your door, sometimes it comes around screaming and hollering like a drunk freshman frat boy. And other times, it sits about quietly while your world is shaking and trying to crumble around you and opportunity just hopes you'll notice it in all the commotion.

I guess I've finally noticed it. Things go right, and then things go wrong. You either accept it, or change it.

This understanding has brought me lately to begin repeating to myself the "Serenity Prayer".

It goes a little something like this:

"God, grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference."

For now, I know that these things in my life CAN be changed. It's just a matter of courage. I have to have the strength and faith to take leaps. If I don't take them now, when will I ever?

I thought that the biggest and most difficult choice would be coming to Korea. That part was easy. Deciding what I want to do with myself while I'm here, that's another story entirely.

However, I certainly won't allow my time to be wasted. I've been given opportunity and I plan to use it, discover its full potential, and regret no decision.

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In other news. I went to Sajik Stadium Thursday night with some friends and co-workers to watch the Korea vs. Argentina game. It was fun... but man.... OUCH Korea! OUCH!

I thought they were holding it pretty good the first half. In fact, I allowed myself the room to believe that there might even be a tie, or at least the chance that Korea could lose gracefully with a 2-1. Nope. Second half came and something happened and Argentina began kicking some tail.

The last goal Argentina made had thousands of people leaving the stadium. Game over. They knew it.

However, since Greece somehow beat Nigeria (please, someone explain to me how that happened?) there's apparently more hope that Korea will advance. Korea plays Nigeria next week.

Anyhoodle. Here are some pictures from the Sajik game.

Oh, and I WAS ON TV!

Haha, for a very short time I and my friends were on the big screen at the stadium, cheering and clapping in support of Korea. *\(^.^)/*

Emma and I dressed in team spirit!


This was right after Korea made their goal. So I'm not sure why this little girl looks upset. She must have secretly been rooting for the other side! *Gasp!*


Cheering and happy commotion after the Korea score!


This little cutie got really confused when he turned around and realized that there were a bunch of foreigners staring at him.


Stadium was packed!


Well, that's all for now. Maybe more later. We'll see how the weekend goes!

Until next time,

~Audra

Living Out of a Bag

The horror - a blog post with no pictures!  I must remind you that our iMac is packed in a box on the way to the US so adding pics is a little more challenging right now.  I'll fix that real soon though.

It's that time again.  Like many deployable sailors, for a significant part of my Navy career, I live out of a bag.  Whatever I can stuff inside a Navy-issued green sea bag, that's what will sustain me for that six month (or longer) deployment.  Actually, we're able to take more gear than that but you should never let the facts get in the way of a good sea story.

Carol and the boys get a small taste of this kind of living when we move.  What to pack and what not to pack.  What toys do they want to play with for the next couple of weeks that won't take up too much space?  Some items to pack are no-brainers - laptop, iPod, camera, underwear, etc.  But then there's the stuff that's not so obvious that you should take with you - chargers for your electronics, USB adapter to transfer pictures, movies loaded up on iPods and laptops to keep the kids entertained, proper uniform items to check into the new command.  Other things like birth certificates, report cards and other school paperwork to register the kids into the new school.  There's also the fun stuff like goggles and sand toys to take advantage of the beach for the next ten days.  They are on summer break after all.  I remember prunes being an important item on previous moves when the boys were just babies.  We want the boys to poop, right?  And then there's the stuff you need to bring along if you wanna get funky - Barry White music, etc.  I won't go into detail here cause I'm thinking it might not pass Carol's editing.

So all of our stuff is packed away and we're now living in a hotel for the next couple of days.  My replacement arrives in Busan this weekend.  It'll be a fast and furious turnover all the way up to the big change of command ceremony on 25 June.

Another challenge while on the road - eating.  Carol is not proud of the fact that she had 3 buffet meals yesterday - the Seacloud Hotel breakfast buffet, the Party and Play buffet at the BEXCO for lunch and the awesome D-Maris seafood buffet at our farewell dinner last night.  I hope I can fit into my summer whites for the change of command ceremony this coming Friday.

Real time update:  Carol just said, "Man, why didn't I pack a lint brush?"  I'll add that to the pack list for the next move.  Gotta go.  Jake just flooded the bathroom.

Cycling around the country

This is something I want to do, and soon.  I have some time off in July but my wife doesn’t and I am not sure about arrangements to care for the little guy so I may not be able to do it this year.

Trevor Anderson managed it last year and was mostly satisfied – after the fact, at least.  This quote reminds me of how I felt when I rode across part of Canada:

“I wasn’t really even happy with my trip when I got back. I returned to Gwangju and I thought it was kind of stupid. But now I when I look back and think about it I’m glad I did it and I’m thankful for all the things I saw along the way,” Anderson said.


George Hrab Pick-Me-Up

I felt bad enough, that “Everything Alive Will Die Someday” really got me out of my own head.

Just remember- everything alive will die someday
and that’s OK. It’s the great equating factor in the world
like some desiccated tractor,
we all run out of gas, this life can’t last
’cause everything alive will die someday

I used to worry that my folks would someday die
’cause that meant if they could than that meant so could I
too young to handle this morose philosophy
I’d deal with all of this by climbing up a tree

and looking at the huge-small world I could survey
I wondered what it’s feel like on that final day
and calculated the heartbeats left in my lot
then realized the best idea was t’enjoy the time I’ve got

and I’d remember- that everything alive will die someday
and that’s OK. From the single cellular to grandiose
seems we’re all destined to be toast
ev’ry leaf, bush, plant, and tree, will cease to be
’cause everything alive will die someday

every empire crumbles
every mammoth tumbles to the ground
ally and enemy
both kick the bucket equally

and in this truth there lies a fact
if you ignore those who distract
you have a chance to realize
the fairness of unfairness is in everything’s demise

You should remember, everything alive will die someday
and that’s hard to say, though to me it’s more a blessing than a curse
(is this a chorus or a weird verse?)
every hand that’s ever writ- will up and quit,
’cause everything alive will die someday

BUT IN THE MEANTIME:
I get to see you smile, and that makes it all worthwhile.
To look into your eyes is worth
the eventual demise of earth
and of ev’ry living cell, what the hell&
let’s Deborah and Clive ourselves today

So let’s remember, everything alive will die someday
but let me say, you shouldn’t do just whatever you will
don’t ever cause anyone ill-
an historic reversal. Don’t you know?
This IS the only chance you’ve got,
it aught to mean an awful lot,
this is the show and not some rehearsal

talk of an extra inning
implies this is just a beginning
but there’s no prize you will be winning
your existence is enough of a reward to keep you grinning

George Hrab is also on Skepticality #133, where his new CD is available for free.

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Busan KOTESOL Summer Conference

Updated: I had posted a picture of text that included personal information – I have removed it and tried to replace it.  Safari is showing me a ‘failed photo’ image though.  No luck – refer to the link for further information.

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On June 26, the Busan Gyeongnam branch of KOTESOL will hold a mini conference.  It is worth going to on it’s own merits, but also, you could meet me at the door there.

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More information can be found here. At that link, I found a PDF with this information (and more):

KOTESOL is holding the first annual Busan KOTESOL Summer Conference on June 26th at Pusan University of Foreign Studies. This event is open to all educators, both Korean and expatriate, and aims to develop and enhance networks among professionals in the Busan area. The conference also offers teachers an opportunity to develop their professional skills and understanding of how technology can be used in the classroom. The conference is aimed at both public and private sector educators.

KOTESOL is the Korea-based affiliate of TESOL International, a non-profit association of professional EFL/ESL teachers and educators.

At the last meeting I attended – I missed one to do farm work – the plan was to print about 100 copies of the conference book.  The book will contain  abstracts and further information about the presentations.  I mention this because pre-registration will almost certainly guarantee you one – the rest will be handed out on a  first-come, first serve basis.


The Central Perk Guide to Korean Street Food

Editors note: It’s a little known fact that when the idea for Friends was first floated to TV execs, the show was originally intended to be set in Seoul. However, due to budgetary constraints and the threat of nuclear annihilation, the setting was eventually changed to New York – although not before a considerable amount of promotional material had been produced! In this never-before-seen tourism pamphlet financed by the Korean Government, the gang share their thoughts on the Korean street food scene. Enjoy!

Joey

Everyone knows I’ll eat anything. I walk about with a spoon in my pocket and occaisonally, like in The One with the Cheesecakes, I’ll even eat food from the floor. I often get homesick for New York, so I love “Korean Junk Fusion.” This is basically western junk food K-ed up and includes Mr Wow, French-fry covered hotdogs and a unique take on toasted sandwiches. My favourite however has to be the Tteokburger stall near Gangnam Station. These burgers are packed with tasty beef and chewy rice cakes – when I first bought one I looked at it and said “how you doin?” and everybody laughed.

Chandler

As someone who uses humour as a defense mechanism, I was a little reluctant at first to write about such a serious topic as street food. Then I spellchecked Joey’s contribution and was like “what the hey!” As you know, I’m a company man, so my favourite Korean street food experience is pounding soju with “the boss” at a pochangmacha in Jongno-3-ga. You can get all sorts of stuff from boiled octopus to steamed clams and best of all the boss puts it on expenses. When I’m working late I also like eating from one of the many tempura-style stand-up joints in Seoul – they’re quick, cheap and filling, and if you are there at a busy time you’re guarateed just out of the fryer crispiness. Just make sure there is plenty of dukbokki sauce on mine – could it be any spicier!

Ross

Due to my sweet job at a University I have loads of time to devote to my passion for prowling markets in search of naive young ajummas street food. Markets often offer the best range of street food around and the food tends to be fresh and on constant rotation. Noteworthy mentions include Nampodong Market in Busan, home of the best pajeon in the world, and the Filipino market in Hyewha-dong, Seoul. Some dino buddies and I also recently checked out Gwanjang Market in Seoul whilst at a conference nearby. The market is the oldest in Seoul and a great spot for Korean Street Food classics. The bindaeduk there is out of this world! And when did we visit? When WE WERE ON A BREAK!

Monica

I used to be hilariously obese, so I have a pretty complex relationship with food. It’s a good thing my job as a head chef rarely requires me to actually be in the kitchen, otherwise I might started piling on the pounds again! Due to my competitive, fiesty side, I like my street food to put up a fight. As such some of my favourites are live octopus and raw fish. It costs a little more than what you usually pay for street, but for around 20-30 dollars you can choose a fish or octopus and watch it get stunned, gutted and sliced. Just don’t tell Phoebs!

Phoebs

During my quirky, troubled upbringing, street food for me meant anything from dead rat to pickled hobo’s liver. I’m vegetarian now, so when I first got to Korea I thought I wouldn’t be able to eat anything. How totally wrong I was! Vegetarian options include anything bready (Gukwappang, gyrenppang, hoddeok etc) as well as other meat free dishes such as japchae, bindaeduk and barley bibimbap. Which  reminds me of a song I just wrote! Bi-bim-baaaap, bi-bim-baaaap, bi-bi-bi-bi, bim-bim-bim-bim-bim, bi-bim-baaaaaapp.

Rachel

You might not guess to look at me, but I like the so-called “gross” side of Korean street food. I’m never happier than when gnawing on a couple of dakbal (chickens feet) or polishing off a few slices of jokbal (pigs feet.) Both are surprisingly tasty and don’t require too much of a culinary leap! More controversial is my love for bondegi – the silk warm larvae boiled in huge vats. Even joey doesn’t like that crap! Now where did I put my SPOILER ALERT! baby?

Gunther’s Street Food tips:

1) Always try to eat from stalls with a long line of patrons. You know the food will be fresher and there is nothing quite like local endorsement.

2) Speciality is the key to good street food. If a stall is selling paejon, soondae, dukbokki and tempura, chances are that one (or all) of them will be below par.

3) The best street food stalls in Korea generally don’t tout for business. If they look like they don’t need nor want your money, you’re probably on to a good thing. You’re also less likely to get ripped off.

4) Try to avoid stack-em high joints in favour of somewhere that will cook to order. This is especially true of the Korean Tempura and Pajeon stalls, where sogginess tends to set in after a relatively short time.

5) Avoid vendors outside tourist attractions such as temples. In my experience, these places consistently turn out below average food at above average prices. They also tend to fall foul of at least one of the points above, meaning they should be doubly avoided.

6) Finally, the most important aspect in choosing somewhere to eat is to follow your gut. Never feel pressurized into ordering something until you properly suss it out. A place might satisfy all the positive criteria listed above but if it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it!

Red Links, 6-17-10

Obama Can't Save UsBritain, BP, Kyrgyzstan, the human genome, and Iraq – this week’s newspaper combines the sobriety and idealism I love about this newspaper.

  • This won’t hurt (much)

  • Oh, yeah right, it’s a British newspaper. But then there’s support for a carbon tax.

    Sensible selective slashing along these lines could cut spending by 5% of GDP or so. That leaves up to 2% to come from tax rises. Labour left an unhappy soak-the-rich potpourri of income, national-insurance and other tax increases worth 1.2% of GDP; the government wants to trim it to 0.8%, but it is proposing further dubious tinkering with income-tax allowances and capital-gains rates. It would be better to raise consumption taxes, which don’t discourage people from working or saving.

    This could mean increasing VAT a notch or two, but it is also a chance to strike out from shore and introduce a new carbon tax. Properly designed, such a tax could not just raise revenue but also help to cut greenhouse-gas emissions and encourage investment in alternative energy sources (see article). Since both the carbon tax and VAT hit the poor harder than the rich, some offsetting rise should be inflicted on the well-off. The best option may be to stick with some of Labour’s tax hikes.

  • Obama v. BP

  • For several reasons. The vitriol has a xenophobic edge: witness the venomous references to “British Petroleum”, a name BP dropped in 1998 (just as well that it dispensed with the name Anglo-Iranian Oil Company even longer ago). Vilifying BP also gets in the way of identifying other culprits, one of which is the government. BP operates in one of the most regulated industries on earth with some of the most perverse rules, subsidies and incentives. Shoddy oversight clearly contributed to the spill, and an energy policy which reduced the demand for oil would do more to avert future environmental horrors than fierce retribution.

    Mr Obama is not the socialist the right claims he is. He went out of his way, meeting BP executives on June 16th, to insist that he has no interest in undermining the company’s financial stability. But his reaction is cementing business leaders’ impression that he is indifferent to their concerns. If he sees any impropriety in politicians ordering executives about, upstaging the courts and threatening confiscation, he has not said so. The collapse in BP’s share price suggests that he has convinced the markets that he is an American version of Vladimir Putin, willing to harry firms into doing his bidding.

    Nobody should underestimate the scale of BP’s mistake, nor the damage that it has caused. But if the president does not stand up for due process, he will frighten investors across the board. The damage to America’s environment is bad enough. The president risks damaging its economy too.

    About all I like here is the support for due process. But, the point, about the regulatory agency’s culpability, is also well-taken.

  • Stalin’s latest victims

  • Kyrgyzstan’s neighbours will point to the recent bloody chaos as evidence of the importance of strong, authoritarian government. It is, rather, proof of the danger of bottling up tensions in the superficial calm that repression can temporarily impose. Democracy did not get Kyrgyzstan into this mess. It might just help the country escape it.

    This is Russia’s mess. But, the world can’t trust Moscow to clean it up.

  • Turning-point

  • Genomics may reveal that humans really are brothers and sisters under the skin. The species is young, so there has been little time for differences to evolve. Politically, that would be good news. It may turn out, however, that some differences both between and within groups are quite marked. If those differences are in sensitive traits like personality or intelligence, real trouble could ensue.

    People must be prepared for this possibility, and ready to resist the excesses of racialism, nationalism and eugenics that some are bound to propose in response. That will not be easy. The liberal answer is to respect people as individuals, regardless of the genetic hand that they have been dealt. Genetic knowledge, however awkward, does not change that.

  • Stop messing around

  • The best course for Iraq would then be for a compromise candidate to be chosen as soon as possible. The Shias would be foolish not to give Mr Allawi and his Sunni supporters a clutch of decent jobs. And that means a coalition government with a shared vision, not just the familiar carve-up into ministerial fiefs corruptly dished out on a tribal, sectarian or ethnic basis, with militias lurking murderously in the background.

    Outsiders can help, by creating a permanent “contact group” of neighbours, perhaps overseen by the UN, to set a monitoring and negotiating framework, much as Europe’s bigger powers, assisted by the United States, stabilised the Balkans in the 1990s. American influence in Iraq is dwindling but still matters. The UN has made progress towards calming nerves along the territorial “trigger line” dividing Arabs from Kurds. The Turks have been more sympathetic to Iraq’s Kurds. But the Syrians, if they want to play a bigger regional role, must do more to discourage the insurgency. The Iranians should stop egging on their fellow Shias to humiliate the Sunnis. And the Saudis should accept that Iraq, their beefiest neighbour, is bound to be dominated by Shias. A democratic election has been held in Iraq, the violence is down and the Americans look set to leave by the end of next year. But that must not be the end of the story. Too much blood has been spilt, Iraqi and American, for there to be a washing of hands.

    And, this is why we invaded?

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Korean Gender Reader

My reading for next week, and good timing in light of this recent photoshoot of Yu-bin’s (유빈) from the Wondergirls (원더걸스). Not that there’s anything wrong per se with a 22 year-old dressing like someone much younger of course, but then the similarities with a photoshoot of then 15 year-old f(x) (에프엑스) member Choi Sul-li (최설리) from February are obvious:

See here for more details of the latter and the issues that it raised (note that Sul-li replicates Yu-bin’s stance in other photos), and #5 below for the news that a recent child rapist was previously arrested (but not convicted) for providing shelter to a homeless 16 year-old girl in exchange for sex. Meanwhile, after The Lolita Effect I’ll probably be ordering Guyland for some balance, although I don’t expect it to be as relevant in the Korean context. Has anybody already read either?

1. The pill turns 50

“The advent of the contraceptive pill is the most important public health intervention we have ever seen for women.”

So said Australian sexual health physician Christine Read while speaking at a press meeting in Seoul last week.

“It has allowed us to control our fertility and to be able to plan when we would have children. It has permitted women to have sex safely, without fear of becoming pregnant,” she said.

And it has over a 99% success rate too, which makes one wonder why less than 2% of Korean couples use it, one of the lowest rates in the developed world. No great surprise to long-term readers of course though, most likely it is due to a combination of:

( Source: Encyber )

Not that misinformation about the pill is the sole purvey of the Korean media however:

Once again, the Telegraph has managed to misinform the shit out of its readers. It’s almost like the Fox News of the UK.

We’ve seen plenty of pieces come out over the last month about The Pill’s 50th anniversary, but none of them were as quite as confused and baseless as this one. (But then again, the Telegraph has a history of publishing inaccurate bullshit regarding feminist issues.)

While the author throws some positive aspects of the form of contraception into the piece at an attempt to convey objectivity, the headline and criticisms are anything but, saying the Pill led to sexual coercion, according to one of their main interviewees, author Libby Purves…

Read the rest at Feministing here.

2. Last week’s LGBT festival

See Chris in South Korea’s write up here (with many pictures), and the Hankyoreh also has an article.

( Source )

3. Japanese women encouraged to marry Korean men in colonial era

I’ve already written a great deal about how exceptional Japanese colonialism was compared to its European and U.S. counterparts, particularly in the degrees to which its colonies were integrated with, developed by, and settled from the home country, but I had no idea that that logic extended this far however:

The lack of discussion on inter-racial marriage by contemporary experts is not the only interesting feature to note. “It is an open secret among Korean scholars,” one professor of modern Korean history said to me the other day, “that there were a significant number of married couples between Korean men and Japanese women but there is so little study on it.” This is another surprise to non-East Asian historians. In other places it is men from the colonizing countries and women from colonized societies that married, and this feminization of colonies is often regarded as an aspect of Orientalism. There were, of course, married couples between Korean women and Japanese men, but as Oguma Eiji has already pointed out, the Government-General in Korea encouraged Japanese women to marry Korean men because, they thought, Japanese mothers were supposed to build the foundations of Japanese culture in the home.

Read the rest at Frog In A Well. And in other Japan-related news, The Japan Times discusses “Vader Ladies”, or middle-aged Japanese women who – like their Korean counterparts – wear excessively-large sun-visors to maintain light complexions; and in the spirit of last week’s opening image, may I present this iconic one of Yukio Mishima on the right also, discussed at Critical Masculinities.

As for dating and/or marrying Koreans, the author of Doing it Korean Style has ironically decided to stop dating Korean men! While that is primarily because of language difficulties however, by coincidence the author of On Becoming a Good Korean (Feminist) Wife has started an enlightening series on why it is much more difficult for 20-something Western women to find compatible Korean men the same age than vice-versa, and hence the huge disparity in the numbers of couples (although this is changing).

4. North Korean women: misfits in the South

A note to Agence France-Presse (AFP): if you want to encourage people to actually watch your otherwise good 2-minute introduction to this subject, then don’t restrict viewing of it to only on the Youtube website itself.

5. Child rapist case demonstrates urgent need for revision of age of consent laws

Convicted last week, child rapist Kim Su-cheol (김수철) was originally unrepentant, but soon began to act differently during a live reenactment of his crime; after all, the Korean judiciary, reflecting social norms, attaches a great deal of weight to expressions of remorse rather than abstract notions like innocence or guilt. Doing some further investigating however, Brian in Jeollanam-do has discovered that Kim Su-cheol is none other than the same person who 2 years earlier paid a 16-year-old runaway:

…to have sex with him about 30 times. The girl, a middle-school dropout who lived with Kim for two months this year, was paid 20,000 won ($16) each time, but was not forced into intercourse, investigators said. Kim reportedly admitted to police that she is pregnant, but said she doesn’t know who the father is.

As Brian mentions, that last point is rather bizarre, and I would add that the JoongAng Daily quoted above is clearly mistaken in reporting that the age of consent in Korea is 19; in a lengthy investigation of my own earlier this year (it is rather harder to determine than it may sound), I demonstrated that in fact it is 13, which is why Kim Su-cheol wasn’t convicted for the above.

I don’t intend to criticize that relatively low age here: not only it is actually on a par with those of many European countries, but in practice any choice of age is somewhat arbitrary, and convictions and/or public sentiment heavily dependent on both the age gap between and sex of the participants. However, in light of that earlier case and 15 other convictions for physical violence and hit and runs since being released from a 15-year prison sentence for rape in 2002, then unfortunately this latest crime of his does seem almost waiting to happen. Short of convicting him in 2008 though, it is difficult to think of how it could have been prevented, although authorities are possibly remiss in allowing him to live within 500m of a school (is there any dwelling in a Korean city that wouldn’t be?).

Meanwhile, K-Bites and AllKpop report that the police have charged a composer with the attempted rape of a female singer, but without revealing the names of either. This may just be an isolated case of course, but bear in mind that in the most comprehensive investigation to date, 62% of current or aspiring actresses surveyed “reported being pressured to have sex with influential figures like producers, directors, businessmen, politicians and advertising executives,” and 6% reported being the victims of rape. See Extra! Korea for more details.

6. State Department’s trafficking in persons report cites “juicy girls” in Korea

See ROK Drop for more details, who:

continues to maintain that the best way to handle the issue of human trafficking is to put clubs that hire third country nationals off limits….If 3rd country nationals aren’t put off limits this issue will not go away because the bar owners will just keep finding different foreign women to traffic in.  By forcing the bars to employ Korean workers it would pretty much make the human trafficking issue go away because Korean nationals would be much harder to traffic in.

7. The Swedish model of childcare

With thanks to the several readers who sent the various links in, this has been receiving a lot of attention in the media recently, prompted by an excellent article in The New York Times that begins thus:

Mikael Karlsson owns a snowmobile, two hunting dogs and five guns. In his spare time, this soldier-turned-game warden shoots moose and trades potty-training tips with other fathers. Cradling 2-month-old Siri in his arms, he can’t imagine not taking baby leave. “Everyone does.”

( Source: Ryo. )

Sadly the polar opposite of Korea, where even maternity-leave laws are routinely broken, and only 1% of fathers take their generous 3 days of paternity leave (see #4 here).  See Gender Across Borders for more commentary, and in Korea’s defense, Femonomics demonstrates that for all its pro-family rhetoric, the U.S. is not much better:

Many Americans would describe Sweden as “Socialist!!” (a big, bad, scary word these days), and they’d be right. But Swedish policies are also much more pro-family than those of the more free-market Capitalist US. At least if we consider parents spending time with their children to be pro-family (I do!). For all of the political rhetoric around our “traditional family values,” US society does not really have a commitment to strengthening the family. Right-wing groups may stand strong against gay marriage and abortions, but where are the rallies for family leave, subsidized childcare, and living wages? The top three results in a Google Search of “Pro Family Advocacy” are homophobic organizations protesting gay marriage. Do Americans just not get it?

Which reminds me of this from a 1995 Time magazine article on evolutionary psychology:

One reason the sinews of community are so hard to restore is that they are at odds with free markets. Capitalism not only spews out cars, TVs and other antisocial technologies; it also sorts people into little vocational boxes and scatters the boxes far and wide. Economic opportunity is what drew farm boys into cities, and it has been fragmenting families ever since. There is thus a tension within conservative ideology between laissez-faire economics and family values, as various people have noted. (The Unabomber complains that conservatives “whine about the decay of traditional values,” yet “enthusiastically support technological progress and economic growth.”)

But I digress. Finally…

8. Of politicking and prostitution

Curiosity Killed the Eccentric Yoruba describes the commotion caused by her being mistaken for a prostitute in a Tokyo an Abuja hotel!^^

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