Last week I interviewed David Mason for Worknplay magazine. David has spent 27 years in Korea researching local culture, history and mountain spirits and now teaches at KyungHee University. His experience living in Korea is really interesting as he has traveled extensively in the country and worked with the government and other institutions. After our chat I asked him what advise he could give to a newcomer. It really rang right and he explained to the point talks I have been having with friends.

Living in Korea is drastically different than in all the other countries I have lived in. Usually you want to make an effort to get out the expat bubble and get into the local ways of doing things. But in Korea you don’t really have that choice as you are automatically segregated. Read on for some words of wisdom:

 

If you come here just to make money, you are going to be really frustrated because of the difficulties and blockages. Many people don’t realize that and can be quite bitter, ending-up disliking Korea. You have to find something to really love about Korea outside and beyond your job, that really turns you own and takes your mind of hardships. Koreans are still rather exclusive, as such there is still quite a big border drawn between them and foreigners, much more than in other countries. Those that come here and are looking for some kind of acceptance and getting-in on the inside of an organization, like getting power or being part of the decision making process must be prepared for great frustration. Because getting on the inside is generally not going to happen. Things even like getting married to a Korean spouse, you will find out that in their family you still are always considered as ”the foreigner”. You have to be able to adapt to that and deal with it well. If it creates emotional problems for you, you really shouldn’t be here but in a more accepting kind of culture.

David Mason’s websites are incredible resources for everything about mountain spirits and shrines all over Korea, www.san-shin.org and www.baekdu-daegan.com.